> Well before there are children, women will fairly often do things like follow her husband or boyfriend // And vice-versa, do you feel there's some sexually s

> Well before there are children, women will fairly often do things like follow her husband or boyfriend // And vice-versa, do you feel there's some sexually skewed pressure here? Sadly for me I was the one who got a job first, so I won the chance to be stuck in a little box every day, yay! > expecting women to be virgins on the wedding night but not expecting the same of men // In the UK I think if you interviewed 10000 people you might get one that thinks that; honestly I've heard a lot of strange views but never anyone expressing virginity as a virtue only for women, it's always been for both sexes. I've no idea what you're leading towards or where you're getting this idea (assuming we're still talking Western Democracies)? > It never matters how carefully I word it // I hesitated to post that because you're one of the first people with a gendered name I've noticed, I don't notice many but overwhelmingly they're asexual names (temporal, rsync, whatever) and I've found your comments high value and definitely adding to the site in general. But, what did you mean there then, I couldn't work out a way in which it wasn't a terrible caricature. You're complaining here about mistreatment, but you're dishing it too. You don't have to care about anyone's feelings to present your perspective - I don't know if you're getting downvoted, but ultimately it's fake internet points. Make your point ... but if you do it in a way that denigrates every divorced male then I think you've got to expect push-back. > I can still count on getting openly hated on // Disagreement ain't hate. I appreciate your posts, doesn't mean I don't disagree with some of their content.