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> It’s even been suggested, too, that such hook-ups weren’t consensual. I feel like a vast majority of hook ups in human history have been non consensual.
by trianglem 6y ago
> It’s even been suggested, too, that such hook-ups weren’t consensual.
I feel like a vast majority of hook ups in human history have been non consensual.
- dividedbyzero 6y agoA vast majority? How do you arrive at that conclusion?
- roflc0ptic 6y agoI think if you put the modern norm of affirmative consent on things, this is probably a “true” statement, although much less interesting. Otherwise it seems p hard to substantiate
- trianglem 6y agoIt’s the norm with great apes and what few hunter gatherer societies we can observe. The vast majority of Europe also has male genes from only the Yamnaya implying a massacre of all men and interbreeding with the women. I can’t imagine all of that was consensual.
- InitialLastName 6y agoBy the modern standard of consent, as an example, the patria potestas [0] rules effectively meant a power imbalance such that all hooking up would be under duress. I'm not arguing that anyone thought it was non-consensual then, because I don't think it's appropriate to try to apply modern emancipative thinking to societies of previous millennia, but one could certainly argue it. edit: markup [0]https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/patria%20potestas https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/patria%20potestas
- vuciv1 6y agoI'd say it's a fair assumption given how much of the world has approached relationships for such a long time. Sex slaves, brothels, selling women off to be married, pillage villages and taking their women, etc.. Women couldn't vote in the U.S. until 1920. That's closer to today than it is to the founding of the country. These are relatively new and human history is much much older.
- snakeboy 6y agoYeah, vast majority seems like a stretch. Back-of-the-envelope calculation: Google says ~100 billion humans ever lived ~60 billion since 0 AD. Let's say since 0 AD, 10% of the average person's lifetime encounters are non-consensual, while the ancient human had 33% non-consensual. These proportions are totally made-up by me. Anyway, that would give us .33 * 40 + .1 * 60 = 19.2% of all intercouse being non-consensual. It seems like any reasonable estimate would put the number well below 50% just given how many modern people there are.
- lmilcin 6y agoYou understand that half of people ever born lived during last two thousand years. 7 percent of people ever to walk Earth are still alive. Prehistoric humans are actually small minority of all people that ever lived. It is estimated that about 1 to 2 percent of people who ever lived were born before advent of agriculture. So, while prehistoric people lived for hundreds of thousands of years, the population tended to be very, very small.
- vbezhenar 6y agoWe need to introduce human population inflation factor and normalize the numbers :)
- trianglem 6y agoWhen you apply a normalization like that I don’t think my statement is true anymore. But as a proportion of sex over any given time slice over time I still think it holds.
- kadoban 6y agoIs this based on any particular evidence though or just a feeling? I don't think it's really guaranteed at all. Sexual behavior and courtship (or lack thereof) varies a lot over different species and I don't think I've personally seen much to indicate one way or the other what early human or pre-human behavior would have been.
- trianglem 6y agoDefinitely feel, not evidence based.
- lmilcin 6y agoIs that based on reading of actual research or is this based on movies? You know, movies are pretty bad at very easy and tangible things like physics. The can't adequately show very contemporary activities like hacking or programming. How accurate do you think is portrayal of prehistoric cultures in mainstream entertainment movies and TV shows?
- pengaru 6y agoI doubt it, but probably true for the period between paternity and/or virginity emerging as social things that mattered and some quiescent point afterwards. Go back far enough and my assumption is there's a lot of pleasureful promiscuity going on, just look at bonobos.
- trianglem 6y agoBut in the same vein, look at all the great apes besides bonobos. Bonobos are the exception because of the abundance of resources.