> not a question and unasked-for advice site In practice, I think this is not correct. You will almost always be told that your question is a bad idea and you

> not a question and unasked-for advice site In practice, I think this is not correct. You will almost always be told that your question is a bad idea and you need something different (even if you already know it is a bad fit and you've said so...). I've had to make peace with the fact that it's probably a cultural thing to feel like the questioner is in fact mentally handicapped in some profound way.