OP hasn't been forced into anything; as they describe in their post, this is a choice that they've made. I don't know who you think you're convincing by speakin

OP hasn't been forced into anything; as they describe in their post, this is a choice that they've made. I don't know who you think you're convincing by speaking so sanctimoniously about someone else's choices, as though they're incapable of taking the right decision without having asked you first or that they must've been forced into it, but it certainly won't be OP or me.