I think revenge and forgiveness are big words with a lot of different meanings. Someone close to me was raped a few years back. No witnesses (yeah, he was her

I think revenge and forgiveness are big words with a lot of different meanings. Someone close to me was raped a few years back. No witnesses (yeah, he was her boss and asked her to stay a bit longer), so the perpetrator could walk of free of worries. It was enraging, but we simply learned not to care. What's done is done. Is this forgiveness? However everyone i talk to in the city where it happened know that the particular restaurant is owned by a rapist, and i've said multiple time, to multiple people, to always ask the nearest formation center to know if they forbid/discourage female cook to apprentice in some restaurants, and if they do, which ones. It's not really revenge, it is just not supporting rapists.