You really should not speak for all female engineers, as it is a generalization, which is against your rules as I understand them. There were 50% of women in my

You really should not speak for all female engineers, as it is a generalization, which is against your rules as I understand them. There were 50% of women in my previous team. My wife successfully switched to IT several years ago. Maybe the key to success is just to do your thing and not to whine about the unfairness of this world? It’s a bit more difficult than fighting for pronouns, but it makes more sense.