I have a huge dislike to ActiveRecord because its high abuse rate. Beginners will most certainly will have highly inefficient start with it. There are others

I have a huge dislike to ActiveRecord because its high abuse rate. Beginners will most certainly will have highly inefficient start with it. There are others in Ruby world which needs more praise such as Sequel and ROM(which is what Hanami uses also). With Rails having the monopoly and most gems having AR as dependency, it's hard to see where we will go regarding ORMs in Ruby world.