On the other hand, if nobody in the room thinks you're cool enough to want to talk to you, the ambiguity in presentation is more a feature than a bug. You're wi

On the other hand, if nobody in the room thinks you're cool enough to want to talk to you, the ambiguity in presentation is more a feature than a bug. You're wishing that we could read each other's minds, but only a subset of us would enjoy that knowledge. Please leave the rest of us space to indulge our illusions. They make some of us more social.