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Nice. Blaming the victim and implying I was the hostile one. I'm respectful of others' religions. It's a private matter. I made friends, ostensibly, until they

Nice. Blaming the victim and implying I was the hostile one. I'm respectful of others' religions. It's a private matter. I made friends, ostensibly, until they found out I was an atheist. So fuck right off with your pseudo-righteous bullshit, okay?

iateanapple 7y ago
Judging from how hostile your response is you are probably in the later category. I’m an atheist and I’ve been going to AA meetings for years in a very religious area and I’ve had no problems at all. If you are in the former category you are welcome and should try a different AA group.
- krageon 7y ago
  Consider that you did suggest it was their own fault because they did something bad and you have all the reason you need for their "hostile" response. You've been fairly unpleasant about something that was obviously a big thing in their life and that yields you responses like this. Turning that around and (again) blaming them and suggesting their negative response is entirely their fault goes beyond that into the fairly toxic. That's not a healthy way to communicate with other people.
  - iateanapple 7y ago
    > Consider that you did suggest it was their own fault No I didn’t. My original post was for anyone seeking help with substance abuse - that AA is a good option for atheists who are friendly to religion and a bad option for those who are hostile. If I had wanted to put the parent into the hostile to religion group then I would have said so. Edit: I also never said anything about being hostile to religious people which is the way the parent decided to interpret it so they could take a swing at me.
NAaddict167 7y ago
Yep I agree with you. Not right to blame you for other’s behaviours. Doesn’t sound like you did anything wrong from what you posted.
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Nice. Blaming the victim and implying I was the hostile one. I'm respectful of others' religions. It's a private matter. I made friends, ostensibly, until they

by athrowaway69 7y ago

iateanapple 7y ago
Judging from how hostile your response is you are probably in the later category. I’m an atheist and I’ve been going to AA meetings for years in a very religious area and I’ve had no problems at all. If you are in the former category you are welcome and should try a different AA group.
- krageon 7y ago
  Consider that you did suggest it was their own fault because they did something bad and you have all the reason you need for their "hostile" response. You've been fairly unpleasant about something that was obviously a big thing in their life and that yields you responses like this. Turning that around and (again) blaming them and suggesting their negative response is entirely their fault goes beyond that into the fairly toxic. That's not a healthy way to communicate with other people.
  - iateanapple 7y ago
    > Consider that you did suggest it was their own fault No I didn’t. My original post was for anyone seeking help with substance abuse - that AA is a good option for atheists who are friendly to religion and a bad option for those who are hostile. If I had wanted to put the parent into the hostile to religion group then I would have said so. Edit: I also never said anything about being hostile to religious people which is the way the parent decided to interpret it so they could take a swing at me.
NAaddict167 7y ago
Yep I agree with you. Not right to blame you for other’s behaviours. Doesn’t sound like you did anything wrong from what you posted.
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