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Life comes at you and you have to deal with it. However I can say CS grad school was really hard just with me. I don't know how I would have handled a kid. We s
by NotSammyHagar 7y ago
Life comes at you and you have to deal with it. However I can say CS grad school was really hard just with me. I don't know how I would have handled a kid. We should support each other in life whenever possible.
- ethbro 7y agoA few of my female friends were in similar situations. Don't discount the drive that caring for a child you love can provide. (They're all superheroes, and I live in awe of the load they've carried, but I think their child definitely helped them get through some rough times)
- seanmcdirmid 7y agoMy kid has required more effort than my PhD ever did. I enjoy it, but I can’t imagine having to do both.