If I was your manager I’d like to know about stuff like this so I could try to help figure something out. Unfortunately it would feel like snitching for you and

If I was your manager I’d like to know about stuff like this so I could try to help figure something out. Unfortunately it would feel like snitching for you and your actual manager + coworker might feel the same way. I usually try to avoid being a “problem employee”, so often end up just going down the path of least resistance. It’s a tough situation, especially if teammates who are senior to you struggle with leadership and decision making.