Brian (the author of this article) used to live in the next town over from me in Japan :-) Super nice guy. Nice to see his work. I've done my fair share of sol

Brian (the author of this article) used to live in the next town over from me in Japan :-) Super nice guy. Nice to see his work. I've done my fair share of solo drinking in Japan. I tend to bring Japanese manga or books with me and read at the bar. This is kind of a flag that says, "I speak Japanese". I've never failed to spend the evening chatting with people :-) So I don't think people are necessarily looking for solitude. I also often see young women sitting by themselves in cafes. Sitting at a table by yourself sends a really different message. However, even then usually I find that regulars get to know the staff and that usually results in people getting to know each other. It's a bit like going to a local pub in the UK -- the staff introduces you to other people if you are a regular. The absolute biggest thing that I find different is young women going on trips alone. This is incredibly popular and obviously a departure from older culture. My friends who were young when I met them (been here long enough that I don't have any young friends left!) often specifically wanted to travel alone. It was a kind of spirit of adventure. If you have only yourself to depend on, then it's more exciting. And they don't just go to safe places. I've had friends go camping in literal war zones! Maybe I just have crazy friends :-) For me, though, it's one of the biggest surprises of the current Japanese culture.