Thanks for helping me think on this. Background: I personally feel that dealing with our collective failings is a collective burden. Your shitty situation is y

Thanks for helping me think on this. Background: I personally feel that dealing with our collective failings is a collective burden. Your shitty situation is you getting the short straw in the lottery of who feels that collective failing more acutely. It's disappointing to hear people conspire on engineering situations so that people like themselves simply don't notice/feel the failing personally, rather than hearing them spend energy working through a more complex resolution of the broader failing. A don't think anyone's saying you're a bad person. But it maybe sucks to hear that you feel it's been shoved onto you alone (which is prob true), and then that others are rallying behind your shoving it elsewhere out of sight. (Note: i realize this thread is a pile-on and your not the initial commenter :)