It seems to affect different people differently. Some commit suicide and blame their childhood abuse so it was probably bad for them (or they were led to believ

It seems to affect different people differently. Some commit suicide and blame their childhood abuse so it was probably bad for them (or they were led to believe it was bad). But perhaps those severe cases also had severe psychological and/or physical abuse or neglect. The sexual aspect gets adults all angry but those other things are extremely common and usually perfectly legal while also ruining people's lives.