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Except she's doing things that require significant every day time commitments and you're not. You're a poster boy for what people are talking about. Do you thi
by nostrebored 7y ago
Except she's doing things that require significant every day time commitments and you're not. You're a poster boy for what people are talking about.
Do you think that women are naturally better at cooking, or do you think that societal expectations have made this basic life skill a necessity for her and optional for you? Your partners having opinions on food or household cleanliness are things that you should take into account as part of a relationship.
- michannne 7y agoYou seem to have a deep seated issue with both parties choosing independently to do whatever housework they want to do. You're making a lot of assumptions, like assuming I tell anyone what housework to do or thinking that I have never approached any of my partners and discussed what they want to do. I recommend you figure out those issues on your own instead of projecting your views of the world on other's relationships
- nostrebored 7y agoThinking your choices are independent of socialization (especially when you literally fullfil a stereotype) is absurd. Individual choice removed from societal context is a near myth. Examining your choices to align with morality is necessary. If you don't want people to use their worldviews on your relationships, don't talk about them on a public forum. This isn't a validation group. Some Douglas Adams supplementary reading: http://remotestorage.blogspot.com/2010/07/douglas-adamss-cow-that-wants-to-be.html?m=1 http://remotestorage.blogspot.com/2010/07/douglas-adamss-cow...
- michannne 7y ago>Examining your choices to align with morality is necessary It isn't. My morality is not yours, yours is not mine. Additionally, I don't care if you project your worldviews onto me, it was a recommendation, which it seems you failed to follow. You do you.