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I can't imagine visiting port sites without using at least a VPN. And without using an ~anonymous persona, and ~anonymous payment methods. And full-disk encrypt
by mirimir 7y ago
I can't imagine visiting port sites without using at least a VPN. And without using an ~anonymous persona, and ~anonymous payment methods. And full-disk encryption. And as I recall, I never did.
But people obviously do. And get nailed by stuff like RedTubeGate, and the Ashley Madison leak. It's mind-boggling.
Edit: OK, so I get the "I love my porn, and you closed-minded idiots can just sod off". That's easy to say, when you live somewhere that porn is legal and ~accepted. But many who read HN aren't in such places. And they may not realize just how much they're not in such places. Until the come to a prosecutor's attention, and they're screwed.
- rv-de 7y agoI've never visited a p..n site with a VPN.
- Swizec 7y agoI watch porn. Like everybody else on the planet. Why hide something so mundane? It’s like pretending you don’t poop. We all know you poop. You’re human. Reminds me of a failed study I read about. Researchers wanted to look into the effects of porn and couldn’t find a big enough control group. There simply aren’t enough people who don’t watch porn to make the study viable. PS: in terms of malware it’s religious sites you gotta worry about. https://www.pcworld.com/article/254694/religious_sites_carry_more_malware_than_porn_sites_security_firm_reports.html https://www.pcworld.com/article/254694/religious_sites_carry...
- NeedMoreTea 7y agoI bet you close the bathroom or stall door when you poop though. They're both something many/most people don't like to advertise. Maybe they'd be even less happy to have details of either habit known. You might think that's silly, but it's far from unusual, it's the norm.
- Fnoord 7y ago> I bet you close the bathroom or stall door when you poop though. I do, but not because I'm shy someone might see (a glimpse) of me being naked; I do it so that they don't attempt to enter a toilet already in use. I find myself often not closing the toilet in after hours. In fact, I don't close the toilet at home cause I know the people who can enter won't. Except when I poo, I might, because I don't want them to smell it.
- Swizec 7y agoYeah but I still bring my personal tracking device to the bathroom. How else am I supposed to read memes? Which brings us to an interesting point. We all want immediate privacy right? Close the door when watching porn, make sure your webcam isn't turned on, close the bathroom when pooping etc. But having a VPN when watching porn or banning phones from the restroom, that's not something many (most?) people do. How come? What's the difference?
- meruru 7y agoThe main difference between those things is that one is easy to understand and the other is not.
- somerandomness 7y agoAlso vpn typically costs money
- Fnoord 7y agoIf you don't want to use P2P or multiple hops ("Secure Core"), then ProtonVPN offers some free VPNs.
- ParadigmaShift 7y agoI use ProtonVPN free nested with another free VPN, then I put Tor on top. You just have to know what you are doing.
- timClicks 7y agoThis is actually cultural too. Stalls in China don't have doors.. nor toilets for that matter.
- isostatic 7y ago> I bet you close the bathroom or stall door when you poop though. Many public restrooms in the U.S. barely have a door, and if they do it is so high off the ground and so short it barely offers any privacy at all
- ctrl-j 7y agoAnd in restrooms like that, I rarely poop. Only if necessary. I'm pretty sure the lack of privacy in US public restrooms stems from illicit use and loss prevention. Not a cultural norm of acceptance of pooping.
- Fnoord 7y agoWhy not? Are you so ashamed your your body? The worst thing I can imagine is something involving cameras. But that would be probably prosecutable.
- zik 7y agoI hope that some day the US will join the civilised world in banning that atrocity.
- ggg3 7y agoyour analogy is off. and the suggestion to use VPN is outright counterproductive. people close the bathroom door when they poop. I guess they also close the door when they whatch porn. using a vpn is akin to (car analogy time) trying to using a rental car while in public. you actually expose yourself to the rental company, who might be shadier than the people at the place you're showing up at, who can still see you trhu the window (analogy for your 3rd party cookies)
- mlthoughts2018 7y ago“might be shadier” is a big part of it... many vpn services are fairly well vetted and it’s known they don’t maintain traffic logs, in addition to staking their whole business reputation on a malicious lie if even a whiff became public, with lots of media & security scrutiny Just like with many car rebtal companies.. very trustworthy and staking their reuptation on not renting you a car that breaks down, etc.
- ggg3 7y agoeven if thats is true, and let's assume it is, you are adding yet another bunch of ISP, networks, nation states laws into the original mix. That might not work out in your favour. not to mention people. no matter how reputable the car renter is, it is still hiring a minimum wage clerk who will handle all your documents and credit card. my little research suggests the opposite
- mlthoughts2018 7y agoThis doesn’t make sense to me at all. Can you clarify what point this is intended to make?
- ggg3 7y agoyou do not trust layer X. so you add layer A, B, C, Y and Z. none have more merits to be more trustworthy than X. You are downgrading your total network trust by adding vpns you do not control fully.
- mirimir 7y agoIt depends where you are, and what sort of porn you watch. In some places, any porn could mean prison or worse. In more places, it could mean losing a job, divorce, etc.
- meruru 7y agoThere are a lot of intolerant people of all kinds around. I can't blame people for being low-key about it. Arguably being open helps change that, but the more fringe content is going to take time to be accepted.
- bobbyd3 7y agoEveryone has something to hide... and do you really want your fetishes and sexual interests tracked and profiled? That random BDSM video you viewed, etc
- david-gpu 7y ago...it wasn't random and I'm out and proud. Some people are not ashamed of their sexual desires. I do understand some people are, and they are concerned about tracking.
- bobbyd3 7y agoIf you were given access to a list of all the porn content you've viewed along with the associated metadata neatly categorized and documented it might change your outlook on the issue. It's not just about the subject matter, it's about what conclusions can be correctly or incorrectly drawn from the data. Metadata such as date and time, location, etc. would be of interest. All this being said, "I'm a sick fuck, I like a quick fuck" http://nymag.com/intelligencer/2018/01/pornhub-views-spiked-in-hawaii-after-false-missile-alarm.html http://nymag.com/intelligencer/2018/01/pornhub-views-spiked-...
- mirimir 7y agoI'm not necessarily ashamed about anything. Although I am disturbed at how hot I get about some seriously evil stuff. But at least not by abusive child porn, which only saddens and angers me. Even the child model bullshit. There's lots of that on Freenet. And yes, I am perhaps too curious. However, I definitely wouldn't want anything beyond mainstream porn linked to my meatspace identity. Because I don't want to risk rotting in prison for ~five years, and getting permanent probation. But by using VPNs and Tor, I need not be overly constrained by those risks.
- c1sc0 7y agoWhat if those desires happen to be illegal in your country of residence? In some locales plain homosexuality can get you in trouble.
- your-nanny 7y agoand yet everyone pretends the opposite
- Lio 7y agoYep hard to believe now but it never used to be a taboo subject. Office wanking used to be an everyday, normal part of the working week. It was the big change in the 1990s after they banned office smoking. As recorded by this fly on the wall documentary series from the UK, “Big Train”: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=VKH9ECC_Qa4 https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=VKH9ECC_Qa4
- mirimir 7y agoHuh? Really, "office wanking"? I don't recall anywhere that was OK. Although I won't claim that I never did it. Or office (in my case, lab) sex, either. But always at night, when very few were working.
- shrimp_emoji 7y agoI can't imagine visiting any site without a VPN. I mean, I can, but it does make me feel naked, nowadays. Who do I want knowing my visit to example.com: (1) my local sysadmin + my ISP + example.com (2) my VPN + their ISP Migration of leaked info to fewer and farther parties wins every time.
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- _-___________-_ 7y agodepending on which VPN provider you chose, (1) could be far safer. at least your local sysadmin and ISP have A) a direct work/business relationship with you that they'd likely rather not harm, and B) possibly some laws governing what they do with your personal information & which sites you visit.