5 ms·The Audacity of Shamelessly Asking12 points by wallflower 16y agojoezydeco 16y agoSo the lesson is not to be audacious in private - do it in front of a large audience where rejection won't be tolerated the same way.fezzl 16y agoThe same principle applies in romance (proposals, confessions, etc.), where, if you win over the crowd, she'd be vilified for rejecting.abraham 16y agoOr he.