Yes, the hard truth: it might be you. I would add that your company has other resources. You can reach out to HR, and you can take advantage of the interperson

Yes, the hard truth: it might be you. I would add that your company has other resources. You can reach out to HR, and you can take advantage of the interpersonal training that is likely available. Don't pressure yourself into believing that is all should have come naturally. If there is one thing we don't realize is how much accommodation we're afforded by the good people around us. BTW, the way to approach HR or other managers about your management problem is to ask how you can better deal with the situation.