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timeouts work better if you call it naughty step instead. i've seen a few supernanny episodes where parents used timeouts before and it didn't work, and then sh
by ptah 7y ago
timeouts work better if you call it naughty step instead. i've seen a few supernanny episodes where parents used timeouts before and it didn't work, and then she introduced naughty step and it works a charm
- JshWright 7y agoMy experience doesn't match up with that reality TV anecdote... Assuming there is an actual change, and it's not just scripting and editing, my guess is there are a large number of factors involved, and not simply changing the name.
- Someone1234 7y agoIt isn't that kind of show. But you're right, the biggest thing was consistency. The kids were being given "timeouts" but if they moved out of them or cried the parents simply gave up. She essentially had the parents follow through and be consistent. Ditto with bedtime routines and similar. The name wasn't meant to be significant. It is "reality TV" but the core of her method is pretty old school and simple. I actually WOULD recommend watching it (particularly the UK version, US one has janky editing) if you can find it. Except for the dumb voice-overs it was a pretty straight forward/to the point show that simply repeated the same basic concepts with different families.
- ptah 7y agowhat i liked most about it is how it shifted parents perception from being helpless victims to empowering them by shifting the blame for the child's behaviour completely onto the parent. and yes, the american version is edited "for dramatic effect". the uk version is more educational
- ptah 7y agoI've applied naughty step with my kids and it has worked really well. the idea is not to make it some cool sportsy thing called "timeout" but to put stigma on it and to apply it consistently
- shearskill 7y agoI was a skeptic about the supernanny too and I don’t watch the show but her book has a technique to help reluctant sleepers adjust to staying in their own beds that really worked for my kid. He’s a teen now and still has a hard time falling asleep, it’s just how he’s wired.
- JshWright 7y agoI'm not skeptical of supernanny, I'm skeptical that simply changing the name from "timeout" to "naughty step" was the primary cause of any observed effect (rather that the whole slew of other, more meaningful, changes that were introduced at the same time)
- ptah 7y agoperception matters more than anything when it comes to dealing with kids(and most adults).
- fjsolwmv 7y agoWhat is a "naughty step"?
- ptah 7y agohttp://www.jofrost.com/naughty-step-technique/ http://www.jofrost.com/naughty-step-technique/
- pbhjpbhj 7y agoI just call it "the step". It's not always clear when a child is sent to "the step" whether they're guilty yet.