If you actually try surrounding yourself with only people that will not see this, I think you will come out disappointed at the size of your social circle. Not

If you actually try surrounding yourself with only people that will not see this, I think you will come out disappointed at the size of your social circle. Not to mention that you usually don't get to pick the people you work with. Lots of things in your life touch upon the lives of people that you can't select for. That means it will be inconvenient at some point when you look bad.