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Unpopular opinion incoming: I’ve known girls who have done sex work. Mostly smaller things like selling used clothes, or pretending to be into a guy for gifts,
by thatoneuser 8y ago
Unpopular opinion incoming:
I’ve known girls who have done sex work. Mostly smaller things like selling used clothes, or pretending to be into a guy for gifts, but a few who straight up were prostitutes. They always had a story of “having no other choice”. The reality every time (again, from those I knew. Not trying to generalize and claim I know them all) was that they weren’t “forced” into it at all. They just preferred that work because they made way more money than what they’d do working and it was easier. But they didn’t like the fact that sex work would negatively impact their future (jobs, relationships, etc), so they came up with victimhood stories to justify it. No idea if that’s what’s happening here, but if I had to wager money I’d wager it’s along those lines based on my experiences.
I see a few others in here mentioning that universities handle learning disabilities. I think if you’re so mentally disabled that you can’t hold a part time job, it’s probably not a great idea to invest 100k into a college education. I don’t know many jobs that require a college degree that are easier to succeed in than working for a min wage job at 10-20 hours a week. So sure, the universities are more accommodating. That’s because they want that 100k pot on your head. If the reality is you can’t hold down part time work for mental disability, I think we need to have yet another discussion on where the ethical line is for universities endenturing students futures for their short term financial gains.
- anovikov 8y agoI know a lot of women who done sex work and no i can't say this is anyhow negatively reflected on them long term. It must be Eastern European culture where it's almost OK. But pretending you've been 'forced' to do it is stupid and that can actually reflect negatively, for being obvious bullshit.
- anovikov 8y agoAnd yes, you are absolutely right here. Being 'inclusive' for a university is a joke: like, you help these people spend the money they don't have, knowing they'll get nothing in return. Now that's the moral problem, not sex work!