It is a shame that I cannot upvote the parent comment 15 times. Jokes apart, I find parent's awareness perplexing. Wife organising nearly everything in a marri

It is a shame that I cannot upvote the parent comment 15 times. Jokes apart, I find parent's awareness perplexing. Wife organising nearly everything in a married couple is way more common then anyone realises where I live, yet most men like to think that they are in charge when they (we?) tend to hide away from 90% of decision making.