3 ms·
I'm not a parent so take this advice with a grain of salt but I think holding your kids accountable for their actions can go a long way. Like if they break the
by icefo 8y ago
I'm not a parent so take this advice with a grain of salt but I think holding your kids accountable for their actions can go a long way.
Like if they break their phone you give them an old flip phone so they are still reachable but they have to earn money (mowing grass, do the chores...) to pay for a new one (even if paying them a new phone doesn't make a dent in your budget).
- x0x0 8y agoIt's not the same. My parents grew up very poor. We were comfortably middle class until my dad died while I was young. I helped my parent with bills from the time I was 18. Even in me, you can see the difference that never going hungry makes vs my mother, who regularly went hungry growing up. And will still drive 45 minutes across town to save $2 on gas.
- socketnaut 8y agoI’m all for frugality. But you wouldn’t pay $2 for the freedom to use those 45 minutes in some other way?
- seanmcdirmid 8y agoIt is habit even if it isn’t the best choice.
- mindslight 8y ago"Habit" isn't even a strong enough word, as that implies it has a chance of changing. It's more like an outlook/heuristic that was formed in one environment, and now that environment has changed but there's no acceptance/reasoning about that change.
- x0x0 8y agoSorry, I meant my mother. My writing was unclear. But yeah, despite the fact that she'll never struggle to eat or pay rent or a mortgage, she remains incredibly savings obsessed.
- sizzle 8y agoGet a Costco gas membership friend