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I’ve been thinking about what it is about vacations that’s so relaxing since it’s clearly not the lack of work. I quit my job a year ago but my day is still ful

I’ve been thinking about what it is about vacations that’s so relaxing since it’s clearly not the lack of work. I quit my job a year ago but my day is still full of stuff to do. What’s nice about a vacation is the lack of physical possessions. You live without a crap load of clothes that need to be washed. You have maids to clean your room. The kitchen staff washes the dishes. You don’t read you email and worry about having to reply to people. You ignore bills and the leaky faucet and the million other things you need to do. It made me think that maybe my life is just full of too many complications.

solipsism 8y ago
I’ve been thinking about what it is about vacations that’s so relaxing since it’s clearly not the lack of work. You live without a crap load of clothes that need to be washed. You have maids to clean your room. The kitchen staff washes the dishes Huh? I think you're confused here. Washing clothes, cleaning your room, washing the dishes, and fixing leaks is work. Vacation is exactly having less work.
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- guidoism 8y ago
  Yeah the word "work" can be confused. What I meant by work was work where you are paid to do something for someone else. Maybe "job" is a better word. I don't have a job and I don't get paid but I do indeed still do a lot of work.
  - solipsism 8y ago
    So does that resolve your confusion about the nature of vacation? :) Your statement "it's clearly not lack of work" should have been "it's clearly lack of job." To me at least, vacation clearly is "lack of work" :)
- dozzie 8y ago
  Vacation is not about having less work. Vacation is about doing something different than you do usually, on a different schedule and probably with no big expectations to meet. Helping one's uncle to build a shed can be vacation to some people. Writing a program one wanted to write for a long time can be vacation, too. Spending three weeks in one's shop on woodworking can be a fulfilling vacation as well. So can be going on an international tour or doing nothing but reading seven different novels one after another.
  - copperx 8y ago
    Getting out of the daily routine, by either laying next to the pool in an all-inclusive hotel or being busy all day building something in the sun, changes your perspective and increases your stress resilience in my experience. Burnout is often the result of one's inability to put tasks aside for a few days.
solatic 8y ago
With the exception of your email, isn't that the point of services like Hello Alfred? To get somebody else to worry about the annoying stuff that used to be your housewife's job before we got rid of that chauvinist notion of your wife as a homemaker, because even as we got rid of our sexist notions about who was responsible for the work, the work itself didn't disappear? I mean, if that's what you get out of your vacation... And you compared the cost of a vacation to the cost of a home concierge service, and found the home concierge to be cheaper - wouldn't you just go with the concierge service?

solipsism 8y ago

I’ve been thinking about what it is about vacations that’s so relaxing since it’s clearly not the lack of work. You live without a crap load of clothes that need to be washed. You have maids to clean your room. The kitchen staff washes the dishes Huh? I think you're confused here. Washing clothes, cleaning your room, washing the dishes, and fixing leaks is work. Vacation is exactly having less work.

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guidoism 8y ago
Yeah the word "work" can be confused. What I meant by work was work where you are paid to do something for someone else. Maybe "job" is a better word. I don't have a job and I don't get paid but I do indeed still do a lot of work.
- solipsism 8y ago
  So does that resolve your confusion about the nature of vacation? :) Your statement "it's clearly not lack of work" should have been "it's clearly lack of job." To me at least, vacation clearly is "lack of work" :)
dozzie 8y ago
Vacation is not about having less work. Vacation is about doing something different than you do usually, on a different schedule and probably with no big expectations to meet. Helping one's uncle to build a shed can be vacation to some people. Writing a program one wanted to write for a long time can be vacation, too. Spending three weeks in one's shop on woodworking can be a fulfilling vacation as well. So can be going on an international tour or doing nothing but reading seven different novels one after another.
- copperx 8y ago
  Getting out of the daily routine, by either laying next to the pool in an all-inclusive hotel or being busy all day building something in the sun, changes your perspective and increases your stress resilience in my experience. Burnout is often the result of one's inability to put tasks aside for a few days.

solatic 8y ago

With the exception of your email, isn't that the point of services like Hello Alfred? To get somebody else to worry about the annoying stuff that used to be your housewife's job before we got rid of that chauvinist notion of your wife as a homemaker, because even as we got rid of our sexist notions about who was responsible for the work, the work itself didn't disappear? I mean, if that's what you get out of your vacation... And you compared the cost of a vacation to the cost of a home concierge service, and found the home concierge to be cheaper - wouldn't you just go with the concierge service?