You can get the best of both worlds by using e.g. jOOQ in Java (allows you to write e.g. db.select(MY_TABLE.MY_COL).from(MY_TABLE) where those values are genera

You can get the best of both worlds by using e.g. jOOQ in Java (allows you to write e.g. db.select(MY_TABLE.MY_COL).from(MY_TABLE) where those values are generated from the database therefore they exist and are of the right type. It maps 1:1 to the SQL statement that gets executed so there's no magic e.g. extra n+1 queries being introduced without you noticing. But if you change your schema, re-generate, and immediate compile errors showing you where you're referencing something that's now been deleted, so it's not fragile like putting SQL in a String in your code (where if the schema changes, the compiler can't help you)