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I wonder if western culture has similiar quirks that we don't even realise.

• daxelrod 8y ago
  “How are you?” “Good” Tons of people have this exchange out of politeness. The person asking “How are you?” doesn’t really want to know details. The person answering is expected to be brief and positive. It’s only among friends that the same question is expected to get an honest and detailed answer.
  • Dylan16807 8y ago
    Brief yes, but nothing about the question suggests they want details. As long as you're not making things too personal you can answer non-positively.
  • pimeys 8y ago
    As a Finn I typically answer what I really feel at that moment. It creates funny situations, but in general I think if you ask me a question I should give a truthful answer. Why would you ask if you don't want to know...
    • tallanvor 8y ago
      It's a quirk in English. "How are you?", "How's it going?", etc. are often greetings, not serious questions.
      • andai 8y ago
        “How do you do?” —“How do you do?” tipping of hats ensues
    • a1369209993 8y ago
      I tried this and it worked poorly; people tended to get annoyed at me for answering the stupid question that they asked. Now I just go with "not too bad" in various tones of voice.
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