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Seemly after the canadian guy killed people with a van, a witchunt for Involuntary Celibates started... For example: https://twitter.com/ekp/status/99181719498

Seemly after the canadian guy killed people with a van, a witchunt for Involuntary Celibates started... For example: https://twitter.com/ekp/status/991817194987114496 https://twitter.com/ekp/status/991817194987114496

Dylan16807 8y ago
I wouldn't use "witch hunt" for a community that toxic, though wow using -gate is obnoxious.
J-dawg 8y ago
Agh, that's scary. What is she expecting them to do about it? Is she asking them to fire people for being sexually unattractive?
- DanBC 8y ago
  Incel doesn't mean "someone who is unable to have sex". We need to have some esympathy and empathy for that group, and many places are trying to fix lonliness. This group may benefit from legalisation of sex work. Pao is not talking about this group. Incel means "someone who is a member of a group who have a pathological hatred of women and men who have sex with women, who think that they have a right to demand sex, and that if it's not provided they have a right to take it by force by rape". Pao is talking about this group.
  - J-dawg 8y ago
    Incel was a label that these people gave to themselves, simply meaning "involuntarily celibate". Sure these communities are incredibly toxic, but I don't think it's fair to say that every member of them has all of the beliefs you describe. Most of these people are probably mentally ill, they need compassion and empathy, not to be purged from society. How much more bitter and angry are they going to be if they start to feel like they're also excluded from having a job?
- cimmanom 8y ago
  I think there's a distinction to be made between "people who are unable to find sexual partners" and "people who self-identify with and participate in communities that spew hatred and encourage violence over the fact that they can't find sexual partners". Sort of like the difference between "white people" and "white supremacists". Except that currently we don't have separate (reasonably brief) terms for the above categories. There's nothing wrong with having employees who are unattractive / can't find sexual partners, and I agree that that would be just as ridiculous a criterion to fire someone over as being caucasian. However, if you have people in your company who are filled with vitriol or considering violence (be it because they hate women who won't sleep with them or because they hate people with a different skin color), that's a problem waiting to happen.
  - dvfjsdhgfv 8y ago
    > There's nothing wrong with having employees who are unattractive / can't find sexual partners, and I agree that that would be just as ridiculous a criterion to fire someone over as being caucasian. On an unrelated note: the "firing" time hasn't arrived yet, but not being hired just because you're Caucasian isn't that uncommon nowadays.
  - J-dawg 8y ago
    I think this "intolerance of intolerance" is becoming terrifying. I personally find "people who hate people with a different skin colour" and "people who hate women" to be repulsive. I'd prefer not to work with those people, if possible. But I accept that in a free society, I might have to. I have no special right to be protected from opinions I don't like, and nor should I. Nobody should be excluded from employment because of an opinion. And in a free society, it should never be illegal to state an opinion. We are crossing the line into thought crime here, and it's frightening to see powerful people like Ellen Pao being ok with that.
    - cimmanom 8y ago
      It is the rare person who can prevent their hate from leaking out into their day to day interactions and making their coworkers uncomfortable - thus interfering with morale and the company's viability.

Dylan16807 8y ago

I wouldn't use "witch hunt" for a community that toxic, though wow using -gate is obnoxious.

J-dawg 8y ago

Agh, that's scary. What is she expecting them to do about it? Is she asking them to fire people for being sexually unattractive?

DanBC 8y ago
Incel doesn't mean "someone who is unable to have sex". We need to have some esympathy and empathy for that group, and many places are trying to fix lonliness. This group may benefit from legalisation of sex work. Pao is not talking about this group. Incel means "someone who is a member of a group who have a pathological hatred of women and men who have sex with women, who think that they have a right to demand sex, and that if it's not provided they have a right to take it by force by rape". Pao is talking about this group.
- J-dawg 8y ago
  Incel was a label that these people gave to themselves, simply meaning "involuntarily celibate". Sure these communities are incredibly toxic, but I don't think it's fair to say that every member of them has all of the beliefs you describe. Most of these people are probably mentally ill, they need compassion and empathy, not to be purged from society. How much more bitter and angry are they going to be if they start to feel like they're also excluded from having a job?
cimmanom 8y ago
I think there's a distinction to be made between "people who are unable to find sexual partners" and "people who self-identify with and participate in communities that spew hatred and encourage violence over the fact that they can't find sexual partners". Sort of like the difference between "white people" and "white supremacists". Except that currently we don't have separate (reasonably brief) terms for the above categories. There's nothing wrong with having employees who are unattractive / can't find sexual partners, and I agree that that would be just as ridiculous a criterion to fire someone over as being caucasian. However, if you have people in your company who are filled with vitriol or considering violence (be it because they hate women who won't sleep with them or because they hate people with a different skin color), that's a problem waiting to happen.
- dvfjsdhgfv 8y ago
  > There's nothing wrong with having employees who are unattractive / can't find sexual partners, and I agree that that would be just as ridiculous a criterion to fire someone over as being caucasian. On an unrelated note: the "firing" time hasn't arrived yet, but not being hired just because you're Caucasian isn't that uncommon nowadays.
- J-dawg 8y ago
  I think this "intolerance of intolerance" is becoming terrifying. I personally find "people who hate people with a different skin colour" and "people who hate women" to be repulsive. I'd prefer not to work with those people, if possible. But I accept that in a free society, I might have to. I have no special right to be protected from opinions I don't like, and nor should I. Nobody should be excluded from employment because of an opinion. And in a free society, it should never be illegal to state an opinion. We are crossing the line into thought crime here, and it's frightening to see powerful people like Ellen Pao being ok with that.
  - cimmanom 8y ago
    It is the rare person who can prevent their hate from leaking out into their day to day interactions and making their coworkers uncomfortable - thus interfering with morale and the company's viability.