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Ask HN: What do you nerds spend your money on?

• TheGrassyKnoll 8y ago
  They say 90% of millionaires make it from real estate. Even though real estate is high right now, you've gotta save and wait for opportunity.
• alhirzel 8y ago
  http://mrmoneymustache.com/ http://mrmoneymustache.com/
• chippy 8y ago
  I don't spend it on anything different. I save the money.
• smt88 8y ago
  Buying yourself time is generally considered a great use of money, and I've seen research to back that up. That might mean using a home-cleaning service or choosing to work fewer days a year, as examples. I hate cooking, so I spend some of my extra income on a meal prep service. If you have cash beyond your rainy-day fund, you should just put it into some dumb ETFs, as Warren Buffett recommends[1]. Active investments are mostly gambling, but if you love the lifestyle involved in that gambling (as many of us entrepreneurs do) then even losing money might still lead to a fulfilling life. You might also consider working toward saving enough that you can retire and live off the interest. People refer to this as financial independence and there are lots of communities[2] and tools to help people achieve it without inheriting wealth or betting on startups/stocks/etc. 1. https://www.fool.com/investing/2017/02/26/warren-buffett-just-revealed-the-best-investment-m.aspx https://www.fool.com/investing/2017/02/26/warren-buffett-jus... 2. https://www.reddit.com/r/financialindependence/ https://www.reddit.com/r/financialindependence/
  • rconti 8y ago
    This is a good point. When we bought a house I immediately got gardener for twice a month because I hate yard work and it was easier than buying a lawn mower and later deciding I don't want to deal with it. We also now have a housekeeper come to clean house once a month, which is SO nice because she does it better and (frankly, sadly) more often than we ever managed to on our own. I feel like a failed adult not being able to clean up after myself, but there's too much else to do in life, and we don't even have kids. All in all, that's $2500 really well spent considering what a tiny fraction it is of our dual income.
  • paulgb 8y ago
    I was going to reply to OP but you've already made both points I wanted to make (buying time and ETFs) :) I would add: spend money on experiences, not stuff. Stuff just weighs you down.
• modbait 8y ago
  After alimony and Social Security deductions, I have just enough money left over to get to work and back each day. Probably not the answer you were looking for... (Advice: Make sure your maxing out any 401k match, then dump as much as you can into a Target Retirement 20XX account. Also, don't get married. Your future self will thank you.)
  • pchristensen 8y ago
    Getting married is fine, if that's what you want to do. But it does complicate financial planning and decision making.
    • himom 8y ago
      You don’t get married unless you’re having kids, waited for relationship stability of at least 5-10 years and have a solid prenup that also captures video evidence of willful understanding of each and every one of its terms. You don’t also do cohabitation without a palnup and similar acknowledgement as above, due to palimony. And you never commingle finances except for common house expenses and the primary residence... keep both of your finances and everything else separate, for sanity’s sake. Finally, if you want to avoid divorce rape, alimony, child-support and all that, then don’t get divorced in a community property state.
  • himom 8y ago
    divorce raped?
    • modbait 8y ago
      I never believed the tales of woe, until it happened to me. Guess I'm doing my penance. Can't imagine how much worse it could be for those with kids.
• thecrumb 8y ago
  Best advice I got when starting out was an older colleague who encouraged me to invest early and often. The sooner you start saving the longer time you have for growth. Invest as much as you can afford to in 401k (see if you company has matching).
  • Bodell 8y ago
    I would only add the caveat that you should ONLY invest in 401K IF you company is matching. Otherwise look into a vanguard fund or something on the like. I think the automatic opting in on 401k is of course better than no investing, but may not be the best course of action in a company that does not match. The last company I worked for, made the decision of if, and how much it matched at the end of each year. During my 2 years there they never matched a single cent. My money would have been better somewhere else, as well as more ethical than handing it to a major bank to auto invest in it's own subsidiaries.
    • johnmaguire2013 8y ago
      A Roth IRA may be a good alternative to a 401(k), but after you've matched that out, a 401(k) is probably your next best bet given the tax incentives (pre-tax savings.)
      • jsutton 8y ago
        Depending on how much you've earned during the year, a Roth IRA may not be an option (exact threshold I've forgotten but it's around $120,000)
        • tyrust 8y ago
          The Backdoor Roth IRA circumvents this. In short, you invest in a Traditional IRA and convert the contribution to a Roth IRA. https://www.bogleheads.org/wiki/Backdoor_Roth_IRA https://www.bogleheads.org/wiki/Backdoor_Roth_IRA
    • pm90 8y ago
• jacobush 8y ago
  Put 5% of your savings into something high risk, like Monero. Then forget about it for 10 years.
• xt00 8y ago
  Faster and faster SSD's.. thats what I spend my money on.. :-) https://www.anandtech.com/tag/ssd https://www.anandtech.com/tag/ssd I just hit refresh on that webpage all the time..
• austinshea 8y ago
  It’s not unreasonable to spend money on a financial planner. It helped me put an appropriate amount of money into a 401k, and other investment accounts, while having a budget for what I can confidently spend on myself.
  • ajkjk 8y ago
    I've done, I think, a perfectly responsible job of investing money after reading a few articles online. What do you get from paying a planner?
    • modbait 8y ago
      If nothing else, it's a check on your thinking. A good one will also look at things from more exotic angles. For example, if you have a lot of stock from an employer, how can you hedge that risk. As life proceeds, finances can get very strange indeed.
• JohnJamesRambo 8y ago
  I spend all my extra income investing in cryptocurrency. But I don't make a lot of money at my job like you guys, I'm a cancer researcher, not a programmer. I live very simply, drive an old (1996) used car I like, and don't buy a lot of extravagances. I need cryptocurrency to succeed so I can retire someday or be able to afford having a family. My crypto portfolio is currently worth more than I make in a year and has given me great hope for the future. That hope and potential freedom has outweighed any of the stupid things I used to spend my money on.
  • denweb 8y ago
    Every paycheck I get goes into crypto.
  • ImSkeptical 8y ago
    You may want to consider diversifying. The continued success of crypto is far from certain and hopefully you'd like to be more confident in being able to do things like retire or have a family.
  • NickM 8y ago
    Have you considered investing in assets that are less speculative and risky than cryptocurrency? I would strongly recommend you think about diversifying your portfolio so that you don't lose everything if it turns out we're in a crypto bubble and it all comes crashing down.
  • brianpgordon 8y ago
    What is this, /r/wallstreetbets? Having a year's income in crypto is insane. Take your profits and put them in a diversified stock/bond portfolio appropriate for your age. Crossing your fingers and hoping for a miracle isn't a strategy, it's gambling– badly.
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• madeuptempacct 8y ago
  I wanted to be a financial analyst, so I am making way less than I expected to make as a developer. I just invest it, there is nothing that I want that I can afford. It's definitely nice to kind of not worry about starving though.
• artimaeis 8y ago
  I come from a similar background. No college degree, from a poor rural southern area. When I first started with a rapidly-increasing paycheck I spent money on all the tech gadgetry. Now, I view most of the things as unnecessary. Instead I'm moving towards financial independence - hopefully to the point where I can retire early. I'm working on maxing out my 401k and IRA investments yearly. I keep a few months salary saved up so I can weather most storms without dipping into the retirement funds. This is something I'm working towards. I'm a long way from meeting my goals of income:savings ratio. I spend too much on food and various forms of entertainment (PC games and movies). My S/O works in the arts and she still finds it insane how much money I make (not a lot by the HN crowd, I'm sure), so she's the one that inspires me to do better things with my money.
• cirgue 8y ago
  I live like a dirtbag and most of the money I spend goes to whitewater kayaking and plane tickets. I save/invest most of my income.
• psyc 8y ago
  I spend the most on buying free time. If I didn’t value my free time so much, I would try to buy income generating assets.
• abarrettjo 8y ago
  I also highly recommend a good financial planner. Not only can they help you with the complicated financial stuff (all the work you might typically expect from a financial planner), they also are experienced at helping you figure out what you care about (and therefore how you should allocate your resources). I find it to be almost like 'financial counseling'. There was a NYTimes article recently that is sortof on the topic: https://www.nytimes.com/2018/04/20/smarter-living/why-you-should-hire-a-financial-planner.html https://www.nytimes.com/2018/04/20/smarter-living/why-you-sh... A good financial planner should be certified (have their CFP), and will offer your first visit completely for free.
• hprotagonist 8y ago
  insurance, diapers, food, rent, bicycle parts, 529, and mutual funds.
• rconti 8y ago
  I max out my 401k, I max out ESPP and put that into savings once they hit the qualifying disposition mark, (ditto with RSUs), I have a stupid silicon valley mortgage, I like fast cars, and I like to travel. But of course, there's more money for travel than time, which is the biggest problem. I don't really have other expensive 'hobbies'. I don't eat out much, my wine clubs are very reasonable/modest ones, I'm not so much into motorcycles anymore, my carbon road bicycle is 10 years old, etc etc. I don't regularly buy new computers/electronics/etc, but when I do I buy something really nice and keep it for a decade. Not a gamer, not hugely into A/V stuff, etc.
• deterus 8y ago
  I follow a pretty aggressive saving pattern for early retirement, but after that I really enjoy spending money on hobbies and travel. (Shout out the reddit community of FIRE) Travel helps me avoid burnout on the job, and expand my worldview. Hobby wise I really enjoy building mechanical keyboards. Its a really close knit hobbyist community. Be careful though the really high end stuff can cost quite a bit of money. But yeah overall, you need to save and be responsible, but at the same time you can't take it with you. Life is meant to be enjoyed, and money opens up some really unique and special experiences for you.
  • kick_in_the_dor 8y ago
    I also like to travel as often as I can. What do you do to maximize your travel time and "expand your worldview"?
• KerrickStaley 8y ago
  S&P 500 shares
• DanielBMarkham 8y ago
  Time. I've made a ton of money -- and spent it. But I never could find anything to substitute for time. I live where the cost of living is really low. I work a few months a year and then take the rest of the year to do what I want. It most always involves technology -- I'm a nerd like that -- but most importantly it involves self-directed learning. I learn stuff because I think it's important, not because my job requires it. Bonus points for being home to watch my kids grow up, getting to know my neighbors, being able to take vacations for as long as I like. Extra bonus points for being grounded in a community that has nothing to do with technology -- as opposed to constantly worrying about whether I was in the cool kids club or not. I'm not, and that's fine. It's true. We make a lot of money. Time is the one thing you can't buy. Nobody ever got to be 80 and complained about spending too much time with their family, but plenty of folks are sorry they were absent workaholics for so long.
  • fro0116 8y ago
    I actively try to find ways to spend money on things that can save me time on a variety of things in my life so I can spend more time doing things I enjoy. Also somewhat related, I tend to not mind spending more money for things I spend a lot of time with. For instance, a fast computer, a comfortable chair and mattress, great sounding speakers/headphones/earphones, etc, etc, are all things I've splurged on, despite being relatively frugal with most other aspects of my life.
    • dplgk 8y ago
      Any recommendations on things you spend money on that save time? Besides the obvious like maids etc.
      • fro0116 8y ago
        I don't think I'm doing anything particularly novel, but here are some examples: - I live in a studio apartment in downtown San Francisco so I can minimize my commute (currently a 10 minute walk). San Francisco is a notoriously expensive city. However, most engineers in similar situations as myself (single, with slightly above market rate salary) can afford to close to work, but many end up choosing not to because they want to save more money on rent. I too could probably save a good $1000 more per month if I chose to live somewhere outside downtown and commute to work, but for me that's a small price to pay to get 5+ hours per week of my life back. - Ordering food instead of cooking. I cooked my own meals a lot in college. It was definitely significantly cheaper than having meals at restaurants, but it was also ridiculously time consuming, especially when you take into account things like learning new dishes and grocery shopping. These days I almost exclusively order food for pickup when I leave work and for delivery on weekends. I also have a few boxes of Soylent stocked up for when I don't feel any craving for any particular taste. I also had an Amazon Fresh subscription for groceries for a while when I was transitioning between my cooking and ordering phases, so that could be a decent compromise if you still want to cook but are looking to save time off grocery shopping. - Buying your own exercise equipment instead of going to the gym. Having a treadmill at home not only saved me commute time to and from the gym, it also had the nice side effect of reducing the activation energy for actually exercising, so I end up doing it much more often now because it's so easy to get started. I also don't have to feel self conscious sweating it out in a room full of other people, and I have my own private shower a few steps away to refresh myself when done. This one also happens to be a money saver in the long run because the treadmill pays for itself in gym membership fees saved. These might not be practical for everybody, but I hope that was at least helpful as a starting point for brainstorming things that could work for you.
• sp527 8y ago
  For context: 27 and also a software engineer. If you do invest (and it's a good idea), make sure to account for liquidity requirements. For example, most people don't realize that if a substantial portion of their wealth has equity exposure and the market experiences a correction, their money is effectively illiquid (because selling at or near the trough would be foolish). You don't want to be caught in this situation while simultaneously having to pay for a wedding/car/home downpayment/initialization capital for a business. So, think ahead about your anticipated liquidity requirements when you decide how you're going to invest. And always assume you have no idea what the market is going to do. By the way, the correlation between most asset classes and the broader market skyrockets during corrections. In other words, most asset classes you might have exposure to will also dip during a downturn. Keep this in mind when deciding how to structure your allocations. Personally, my purchases fall into a handful of categories: - Inexpensive, non-recurring (or infrequent): books, classes/meetups, clothes, one-off trips, etc - Inexpensive, recurring: subscriptions (Netflix, Spotify, HBOGo, Amazon Prime), coffee, the marginal cost of higher quality food and usually pre-prepared, vitamins, cleaning service, and some other things that improve wellbeing or buy back my time - Expensive, recurring: rent - Expensive, non-recurring: trips/vacations I generally don't worry too much about the 'Inexpensive' categories because they're typically not worth adjusting. If you ever do a comprehensive financial self-assessment, you'll see that being pennywise is a losing game just based on the numbers and therefore not even worth the stress/extra effort. Just don't be unreasonably penny foolish and you're fine. In my case, I don't drink and I don't really like expensive meals, so I save a lot of money right there. I try to keep my rent as low as possible. That's the easiest thing to optimize. Having a smaller space is actually useful as it forces you to be outside more often. I almost never balk at spending on experiences or trips; in fact, I consider those the best expenditures by far. I do not (and probably will not for the foreseeable future) have a car, a mortgage, or a wedding (not planning to get married any time soon; have decided it's worth delaying in my case). Two things in the next 3-5 years I might need money for: initialization capital for a business (if a side hustle matures) and backpacking/traveling expenses. I'm hoping to go off for at least 3-6 months at some point in the next 2-3 years. Savings and investment rate is above $50K per year. I usually go 40% in the market and 60% high yield savings + bonds. That's on the low side because I anticipate needing cash on hand in the next 3-5 years.
• Takizawa 8y ago
  Find a low-fee diversified index fund, such as from Vanguard. Take 20% or a reasonable portion of your income and place it in this fund with each paycheck. As they say, pay yourself first. Check out the Bogleheads' Guide to Investing for further information. That is literally all you need to know. I have earned the Chartered Financial Analyst designation over a rigorous course of study. This is literally what I do with my money.
  • kolpa 8y ago
    For a young person with a high paying job, 50% may be a reasonable portion of your income to save. Mandatory expenses will increase if you grow a family, possibly faster than your income growth. And consider putting that money to good use -- improving the world, or rewarding people who are doing good work but not well compensated for it, or creating opportunities for other not-yet-wealthy people to have a chance at a good shot in life.
  • madeuptempacct 8y ago
    Be honest, all the way to level 3? Did it help you with your career? Level I did NOTHING for me, so I went into software development after a fund manager at Fidelity hired his cousin with no credentials over me. Oh, and I agree, except I recommend plain index funds. I got worse at investing after the degree/cfa/series 7/63.
• deaps 8y ago
  Honestly, save / invest as much as you possibly can. I have a wife and children, we have everything we need, most things that we want, nothing spectacular (sensible, yet very nice, vehicles, bicycles, home with interior upgrades, extra amenities, etc) - our taste is fairly plain. We take a vacation with family every year to save money there. I guess the point is, live comfortably, get the extra stuff, sensibly, but save. Because you just never know.
• mollusc 8y ago
  Plan so you can live comfortably, then with the excess, fund people doing things you consider important, if they're open to contributions. Sponsor schools and community stuff. Accumulation of wealth beyond the reasonable needs of yourself and dependents is pointless. Full disclosure I don't have the income for this yet so I can't offer experience just opinion.
  • civilian 8y ago
    But what about early retirement? I don't want to work until I'm 65. I'd rather work hard now, and be aggressive or "greedy" about my salary, so that I can retire earlier and fund things for my future family. That's the point of accumulation of wealth.
    • mollusc 8y ago
      Just be honest about when you've accumulated enough, I guess. If you're already sitting on a large enough pile of savings to live comfortably until you're 120 maybe it's time to retire / give back, not buy extra property.
    • bhandziuk 8y ago
      I think you need to be realistic about what "early retirement" means. To a lot of people this just means spending their time not at a desk job. Instead they spend their time making money (maybe less money but still some) in different ways. Ways they find more pleasurable. If that's the case you don't need to save all the money you'll ever need for the rest of your life by the time you're 50 because you're not spending your remaining 50 years doing literally nothing.
• gshubert17 8y ago
  I tried to save 20% of my gross pay: 10% into tax-advantaged vehicles (like a company 401-K or IRA); and 10% into regular taxable accounts. For the latter I opened a brokerage account and set up a direct deposit to it from my paycheck. Keep emergency savings in a money market fund. Then buy shares of an index fund (or two). I started (back in the 1980s) with a 2-3% savings rate at first. As I found ways to economize, I could save more. And as I got raises, I tried to save most of each raise. After about 4-5 years, I was up to 20%. The taxable part could be used for large expenses, like a car or down payment on a house. The tax-advantaged savings accumulated until I retired in 2016. EDIT: During my working years, besides the usual family expenses, I bought books, lectures from the Great Courses, and a second master's degree. Now I have more time to make use of all of these.
• lolc 8y ago
  I work part-time and I don't spend all that much. I'm living with people who earn enough to not have any financial worries. We're currently paying down the mortgage but are looking into donating or lending to other projects who have a hard time getting funds.
• gonesilent 8y ago
  Get your IRA funding started asap. For my spending since 1998 I've spent over 100k on amazon. Paid off my land. Rest Goes to tools and toys. I try and save 15% of every check to my savings account aka betterment.com. also have year supply of canned food and shotgun ammo.
• pnathan 8y ago
  Yes, the money is crazy. It disappears surprisingly fast. I am married with a baby; wife doesn't work currently. We own a house. That all accounts for the largest single block of expenses. So: housing, food, medical, diapers. Then utilities incl phone and internet. Everything except medical gets scrutinized to some degree. Past that: retirement & stocks. Vanguard pioneered index funds and the Standard Advice for people who don't want to fuss about it is "max retirement yearly in the standard vanguard index fund". Standard advice is save 15% of your income. Misc other costs: We eat out too much. I have professional memberships incl the ACM and I donate to political races I believe deserve support (shoutout to the irreverent bookmarking site). We have a gym membership - we tacked on a babysitting membership for the kiddo so we can put him in babysitting when we go. It's pretty expensive but invests in FutureUs's health, which pays off in ways non-financial and financial. And it saves on finding a babysitter 3x/wk. We have a car and hope to move to a place where we can sell it. The car has a "proc effect" cost of about $1000 once a year beyond the usual car ownership costs. A substantial part of my savings for the past decade went towards a down payment on the house we now live in. We're still adjusting towards that. I advise donating some towards church or other charity; I strongly believe that those of us blessed with resources have a duty to share with those not blessed. oh yes - hobbies. I got into oil painting. That's been fun and VERY expensive. I buy nonfiction books and read them. At $12/book, that's not cheap in volume. Lately I got interested in kettlebell based workouts, so I got a couple of decent quality ones and didn't really think too hard about the money. I don't expect them to wear out or break, so it's a lifetime investment in health. so on and so forth. Disciplined investing is how you should be thinking about money.
  • jd75 8y ago
    >a baby; wife doesn't work currently. As a favor to you, let me note that whatever your job is, your wife works harder than you do.
• sp332 8y ago
  It's kind of a cliche at this point, but "experiences" are a good thing to spend money on. Travel, hike, try different or downright weird food, dress up and go to comic con and let people take pictures with you.
• mysterydip 8y ago
  Before I was married, I did racing and video games. Now it's more taking care of my family and saving. One of the most rewarding things was giving to charity. Find a cause you're passionate about and see what donating some time or money to it does for them and you.
• uxp100 8y ago
  I am incredibly shocked by how much money I am making, more than I expected when growing up, obviously, but more than I expected even when entering the industry. I think everybody else is giving good advice, so here's something I always heard was maybe a bad idea, but so far I don't regret: Friends and family hitting me up for money. I've given a few people loans, one very large (40K, cancer debt). Hasn't been a problem, one wasn't paid back, and that's OK. When you loan a friend 1K because he's homeless, mainly you're just glad he's not homeless anymore, I would have just given him it, but he preferred a loan. His situation is still precarious, years later. But I guess you have to make that judgement for yourself, I'm not having acquaintances ask me for money for a new TV or something. I target giving 10% of my income to charity each year. https://www.givingwhatwecan.org/ https://www.givingwhatwecan.org/ is a site that advocates for this. I usually fall short just from forgetfulness. I also got the standard yuppie hobby of photography (and vintage lenses, though the cheaper ones).
• pm90 8y ago
  You want to keep a few months living expenses away in a Rainy day fund. I actually kept much more and it helped me 2 times greatly: * I was laid off from my first job; I had more than enough saved to ride out the couple of months I spent searching for a job. It was actually a nice vacation. * I'm currently moving to SF for a new job. They do pay for relo, signing bonus etc. but you get the cash only after you start working. You need that liquidity to pay for moving, security deposit/rent etc. After the rainy day fund, follow the great advice others have said and invest aggressively in ETF's with very low admin costs. I'm personally a huge fan of Vanguard Admiral Shares.
• CryoLogic 8y ago
  My suggestion for anyone who wants to get some returns without a lot of work or risk: https://www.bogleheads.org/wiki/Three-fund_portfolio https://www.bogleheads.org/wiki/Three-fund_portfolio
• code_chimp 8y ago
  Floppy disks, tentacle pr0n, and Ramen But seriously get a spouse and one or more offspring and the extra money ends up getting invested in family events, college savings, kids' activity fees/gear, etc.
• eli_gottlieb 8y ago
  * Pay off literally all debts. * Make sure you're contributing as much as gets matched to your 401k if you have one. * Open a Roth IRA and contribute the max at $5500/year. * 10% of income to good causes and/or fighting the power. For example, I'm a DSA member and an ACLU monthly donor. * If you're not over 20-30% of your income yet, start throwing stuff in more Vanguard index funds at the full tax rates.
• Kilonzus 8y ago
  I'm still a student so I don't have too much expendable income to be putting it into things that I want to but I do like to invest in the stock market. I've been able to maintain ~30% roi (beginners luck?) which I then use to travel. But as a black man too, I believe in investing back into the community. Especially programs you wish you had when you were younger. One of my goals is to go to local schools and pay some of the children's school lunch debts. Its ultimately your choice but look around see which ideas you like and implement them. Be smart with it too. And kudos for the journey you've went through, not enough of us in that field.
• nylin93 8y ago
  After all is said and done with my savings and retirement I spend the leftover on my hobby of fishing. So, if you have any money leftover you should maybe look into picking up a hobby. If you don't want to spend anymore then the default is to save it.
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• dmcy22 8y ago
  I'd like to suggest donating money to causes/organizations you believe in, whether that's locally, in the US, or abroad. If you have excess, why not use a bit of that to help someone else? (Plus, it's often tax deductible.)
• abfan1127 8y ago
  I save 15% for retirement, I save 10% for college/trade school/other for my 3 kids. I race in the 24 Hours of Lemons (http://waitwhat.racing http://waitwhat.racing). We also like to ride quads and dirtbikes and camp to do so.
• synaesthesisx 8y ago
  Collecting Teslas
• squozzer 8y ago
  1) Savings, but not too much (~10%.) 2) Guitars. More of a noodler than a player, started cheap (Ibanez) but now have my first Gibbie (an LP Studio, still allergic to $2000+ guitars.) 3) Home Improvements. I had a new driveway and garage floor poured recently so my car lift would stay put. Looking to remodel my master bath this year or next. 4) Cars. Have a derelict GTO and an older Blazer along with my daily driver. 5) Donations. About $1000 / year, most of it donated around the end of the year. None of these are particulary sound investments except #1. Here are some other ways I plan to spend my money - 1) Skills. Both computer and non-computer. 2) Travel. My tastes here are rather pedestrian - beaches, mountains, Western Europe.
• AnIdiotOnTheNet 8y ago
  I wouldn't worry too much about what you do with your money, honestly. Sure, get some financials going, a 401k, a roth, some index or mutual funds, whatever, but don't waste a lot of mental energy worrying if you're extracting the maximum value from it. Make it something auto-deducted that you don't even think about. Be surprised at your quarterly statements when you bother to look at them. After all, what's the point in having all this dosh if all you do is worry about crap all the time? In the meantime, find out what you really want from life. I find a lot of people spend money on a bunch of junk that they not only don't need, but don't even really want. They just thought it would make them happy, or felt the need to keep up with their peers, or imagined some unlikely future scenario where they'd need it. Spend money on what you really want to spend money on, whatever brings you joy and satisfaction, and let the other stuff slide.
• redthrow 8y ago
  There's an Economist article about how the spending habits of the rich people have shifted over time in the US. Today, they spend less money (in relative terms) on fancy cars and watches, and more money on things that are less visible but more (what they consider) valuable: kids' education, hiring private chefs and maids (because they tend to be time-strapped), luxury gym membership with personal trainer, etc. https://www.economist.com/news/books-and-arts/21725751-new-book-looks-how-expenditure-has-changed-among-americas-affluent-modern-american https://www.economist.com/news/books-and-arts/21725751-new-b...
• pattisapu 8y ago
  Mechanical keyboards. (Abandon all hope, ye who enter here.)
• mikekij 8y ago
  "To boot, I don't even have a college degree. I've been extremely lucky, and I'm ridiculously grateful..." Just want to commend you on your attitude toward your success. I firmly believe that being thankful for, and conscious of your 'luck' begets more luck!
• mikekij 8y ago
  As far as investments go, - Max out 401k - Max out IRA (if possible) - Of your remaining investible income: - 66% in a Vanguard Index Fund - 33% in a rental property or two Just a suggestion.
• dsfyu404ed 8y ago
  Max out your 401k contributions. Automate saving as much as possible and don't touch it. I second the advice about the index fund. Save everything you don't need for monthly expenses. Take advantage of any tuition reimbursement your company offers and go to college (it sucks but you need that overpriced piece of paper). Don't scale your lifestyle with your income. As a result of your upbringing don't see eating out, expensive electronics, a fancy car, new furniture in your apartment, hipster beer, fancy close etc. as something you do by default. Keeping your lifestyle minimal and squirreling all your money away will be easier for you than for your "higher class" coworkers. If it hasn't been said before, don't loan people money you expect them to pay back. It's easier for people to justify stiffing you when they know you make X and they make Y. If you do help you family out do it as a gift, not a loan. It's tempting to help pull your family up with you but you can't do it all at once. Avoid short term debt. Yes you can optimize credit cards and game the rewards, etc but that's a whole additional thing to track and manage and not something you should be taking on until you're more experienced with your money flow situation. You've got enough money that you don't need to buy stuff on credit anyway. I'm serious when I say to save (like, in a 401k or index fund, not in a savings account or somewhere you can see and easily access/spend) everything you don't need for expenses less maybe a grand or so a month. Also, as you get to know the people in the office I think you're likely to find that people in your position are far rarer than you think and that many* of them are women. relative to tech in general *My observation is that the gender diversity hiring initiatives and intern pipelines (which target women) tend to catch a more economically diverse pool of people than tech hiring in general.
• markvdb 8y ago
  I tell myself I have just a lower middle class wage to spend, even if it is a bit more. I like to think of my thrifty spending as a way to keep in touch with the reality of people of more humble means. What you earn more than a cashier, the Moroccan cleaning lady or the Mexican strawberry picker is your lucky lottery ticket. They can survive without. You too can probably. Investing the surplus is a simple technical question. Read up on the subject. Donate some of the (returns on the) surplus. Not because you have to. Because it will make you happy.
• thatswrong0 8y ago
  Index funds, cryptocurrency, really good sushi, and synthesizers and other music software I don't really need. That's pretty much it.
• dougmwne 8y ago
  Calculate the number of years you'd need to work at your current savings rate before you can "retire early" or be financially independent. The following formula is something I adopted from finance blogs and is just an enlightening simplification. E/S * 25 = Y Where: E: Your yearly expenses. S: Your yearly after tax savings. Y: The number of additional years you need to work Implications: -If you spend and save an equal amount you have about 25 years of work to go. -If you save many multiples of what you spend, you may have just a few more years of work left before you are never obligated to work again. -If you save just a fraction of what you spend, then early retirement is not looking so good. -Every dollar per year you spend in early retirement will need at least 25 dollars backing it up in your nest egg. -Spending more money means you are obligated to work a hell of a lot harder and longer. (Which is not always an option in bubbly, ageist fields like tech) Assumptions: -Expenses and Savings stay constant throughout your life. -You put your money into an index fund that nets 7%, 3% of which goes to keeping up with inflation, 4% of which is your safe withdrawal rate (which is also where the constant, 25, comes from). -Your current bank balance is 0.
• cimmanom 8y ago
  You're not alone. Money management is taught to depressingly few people in this country. If you're new to having significant amounts of disposable income (congratulations!), here are my thoughts: 1) Take a little time and write down what your values are. There are lots of things you could do with money. You could invest it to retire early. You could invest it in yourself in any number of ways (education, exercise, therapy, whatever is important to you). You could use it to provide opportunity to others. You could spend it on hookers and blow. All sorts of things. Decide which ones are most important to you and what proportion of your disposable income you want to allocate to each. 2) Make a budget. Start with the things you really need. How much do you need every month for housing and utilities? How much for food? How much do you need to spend on clothing in an average year just to keep yourself warm and dress appropriately for your workplace? On health insurance? How much do you need to set aside in case your car breaks down or you break a bone and need bunch of medical care? 3) Add a buffer to your budget for the unexpected (and the things you forgot when making the initial budget - you can update the budget again next year); and another smaller buffer to indulge yourself a little (a beer with friends after work once a week) but not a lot (table service at a schmancy nightclub every Friday and Saturday). Stick to your budget. 4) Look at what's left over. Save up until you have a rainy day fund that can cover at least 3 months' worth of expenses in case of unemployment. 5) While you're saving this rainy day fund, read up a bit on money management and about various investment vehicles. Early retirement websites are a great resource for this. I'd advise against treating their recommendations as gospel; but they typically will introduce you to a lot of important concepts and have references to tons of great learning resources. 6) Once you have your rainy day fund, your disposable income is available to allocate to the various purposes you defined in your list of values. You have an advantage here in that you already know how to live on relatively little, and you know the difference between needs and wants. That allows you to focus on spending your money in ways that reflect what you truly value, rather than just on whatever new shiny you decide you "need" just because you want it.
• DoreenMichele 8y ago
  The article and comments here may be helpful to you: How and Why Athletes Go Broke (2009) https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=16341848 https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=16341848
• audleman 8y ago
  Invest as much of your money as you can. I'm investing around 30-40% per year (no family, no kids but I do have a mortgage). At my rate the absolute outer limit of when I'll have to work is 55, but I could easily retire by 50. I don't know if that sounds like a long ways off to you, or that you'll be old at that point, but it's not. I might buy a sailboat at that point and travel the world for a decade. Being able to see that in the near future I am free of the obligation to work is incredible. I feel this great expansiveness when I think about it, which my non-tech friends absolutely do not have. I recommend using your money to buy your freedom instead of more things.
• ssivark 8y ago
  In addition to some of the other suggestions in this thread, invest in the people you care about, particularly family and friends. Invest not just money, but also share time and expertise. Invest in their education/training, help them towards better employment (maybe help them start a business), help them make progress towards their goals. Help them "expand the pie" and make them understand that you want them to pay it forward. It's easy to forget this when using an individualistic lens, but friends and family could be your best safety net in tough times -- this is probably the only investment that is also invested in your growth and well-being. Done well for a couple of generations, this is often what seeds "privilege".
• felixcatus 8y ago
  For a very long time I was saving a lot, even over 50% of every paycheck. I was renting a room, even if I could easily rent whole flat. I was spending my money mostly on food, clothes and sometimes I bought electronic gadgets. I didn't even had a driving licence, cause I thought owning the car is an unnecessary expense. Now I own used BMW, so I spend a piece of money on fuel and casual fixes. I also spend greater amount of money on branded clothes. I buy a lot of books, which I am currently addicted to. I'm 32 single guy with decent salary, but I still rent a room, instead of a flat. I still buy electronic gadgets and I pay more for them, than before. I don't cook, so I either eat outside or order catering for whole day. I don't intend to invest my money. I just want to live my life, learn science, read books, play with my cat, meet with friends and develop my pet projects. I use time as currency, so I'd rather pay someone to clean my flat or fix the car, even if I could easily do it by myself. There are months, when I can spend more than I earned, but usually I can save even %40 of my paycheck. And BTW I'd rather call myself a geek, than nerd. But it was nice, to share my thoughts ;)
• free_thr0w 8y ago
  i buy drugs, expensive clothes, investments, eat out a lot. also in my twenties and don’t really know what to do either.
• bradlys 8y ago
  I don't know how much you make or where you're living. It could be you're one of the many on HN that is making over $300k/yr with just a few years of experience. That said, I'm 27. About 5 years in now as well. I live in the bay area and work at a startup. I'm definitely underpaid by a sizable amount. Anyone at google or fb is making more than me. I think the first things I used to buy were furnishings, cooking equipment, computer upgrades, a tv, a bicycle, a newer car, a motorcycle, tools, a fitted suit, and so on... Just whatever interested me. Spending $2-3,000/month on "non-essentials" feels like it happens every other month. It's a lot but it happens because I have a lot of interests. I ride the bicycle to work and so that made sense to buy. (I also sometimes enjoy bicycling) I watch movies and shows on the TV. I play demanding PC games. I like to cook all kinds of stuff. I like having a mattress that isn't 25 years old and doesn't hurt my back. My last car was totaled and I'd been borrowing cars for a year. So I decided to buy a BMW 135is because I wanted one for so long and I like sporty convertible cars. I bought a motorcycle because I've wanted one for a decade. I bought tools because I work on everything by myself. I bought suits because it's one of the few things I look good in. I spend the money on what I like to do. Money is definitely my most limited resource these days because I happen to like a lot of things and those things be expensive. I like my car but I'd sure love to have a GT3RS. I like my motorcycle but a S1000RR or R1M would sure be more exciting. I can take decent photos with my camera but the tech is a 8 years old and the noise in low light is terrible. I'd love a new L lens or a A7Riii to take some better low light photos or better portraits or nice strobes to get better lighting. What I'm saying is that my demands seem to be a lot larger than yours, I guess. Be glad yours isn't and keep it that way. Save as much as you can for as long as you can. It's definitely better to be satiated than starving. I also don't live a "FIRE" lifestyle because that's not my goal. I want to live a bit while I'm young. I want to be able to drive fast and ride motorcycles and do all the things before I feel like I don't have the option to anymore. (And depending on your future spouse and future standard of living, this could be a real issue!) I still max out my 401k and IRA every year. I still save more on top of that because it's not enough to meet retirement goals. I try to save 20-25% of my pre-tax income every year. 401k+IRA isn't enough to meet that so I have to save a decent amount of post-tax money. I typically invest in vanguard index funds. Pretty straight forward. You can use their target retirement funds to just get started. If I was making over $500k/yr, I think that's when I'd start to feel like I made a lot of money. But, where I live, even that doesn't feel like a lot because that's the level of income that's just barely enough to buy a updated house where I live. A long time ago, $100k/yr sounded like a lot. I grew up in a very rural area with very low incomes. But, now, it sounds like pennies because houses where I am are regularly $2,000,000+ and they're like 1500sqft on a 4500sqft lot with 1930-50's construction.
• gradschool 8y ago
  It may seem like a lot of money if it's more than you've ever had before, but in the scheme of things it's not a real lot. I've heard loads of horror stories about athletes actors and lottery winners ending up broke because they underestimate how easy it is to use up. If I were in your position I'd live modestly, avoid crazy investment schemes, and manage my money like a normal person. (P.S. I'm a white guy from a middle class background.)
• ncallaway 8y ago
  While I think the community at r/personalfinance tends to overdo it sometimes, I find their wiki of "how to handle $" to be extremely helpful. https://www.reddit.com/r/personalfinance/wiki/commontopics https://www.reddit.com/r/personalfinance/wiki/commontopics. That helped me figure out what some of my options were for managing money beyond what I was aware of (which was basically just "savings account" or spend it).
• himom 8y ago
  - food (i cook and frequent farmers markets) $200/mo - gas $50/mo - car repairs $100/mo - personal products $25/mo - old-school unlimited LTE plan $135/mo - paid off iPhone 6S $0/month - paid off MBP A1278 $0/month - paid off 85 VW Westfalia $0/month - not paying rent, hoa or a mortgage priceless - Spotify $10/mo - Netflix $14/mo - VPN $8/mo - EFF $20/mo - ACLU $20/mo - Costco Executive $10/mo - (if I flew more) Priority Pass - sbux $20/mo - RO water subscription $1/mo - upscale gym w towels, private showers and not crowded $60/mo - health insurance $350/mo All-in, my total expenses are conservatively no more than $20k/yr USD. Everything else goes to revenue generating assets.
• godelmachine 8y ago
  I am planning to buy a FPGA board in my next appraisal.
• RhysU 8y ago
  The usual things others stated, but add to that adequate disability and life insurance.
• amacbride 8y ago
  I will say that my best investment by far has been real estate, followed by typical 401k index funds. (Pre-IPO stock options have been hit or miss.) The best advice I can give is to live below your means; it doesn't mean you have to deny yourself everything, but going out 5x/week vs 2x/week really does add up over the years.
• bkuehl 8y ago
  Now that I own a home, a whole bunch of money into that like new garage,yard landscaping, furniture, etc. Oh, and I'm also spending way too much money on my husband's Eve Online gameplay.
• askafriend 8y ago
  I try to save as much of it as possible and invest it aggressively into things I find interesting (mostly in the public/private markets). Making money is fun but investing and growing it is even more fun for me since I don't need much money to live day-to-day. Investing also helps me develop a worldview and check it against reality which is a really cool feedback loop. Most of my strategies are incredibly simple and involve a broad conviction of where the world is going rather than digging into the super nitty gritty details of every quarterly report - I always invest long-term and I never ever day trade. In fact, I've never held an investment shorter than 1.5 years or so. Needless to say, I've done really really well in the bull market of the past couple of years. Most of my day to day expenses are probably food and rent as is common in San Francisco. I also buy nicer clothes, computers/gadgets or spend a little more on hobbies or travel (subsidized through credit card points churning, which is another fun game if you can afford to play it). But overall I try not to cross over into irrational, needless spending. I mostly have everything I could ever want in the world. Most of my problems are now internal and existential, which is a blessing (and a curse).
• rajacombinator 8y ago
  Failed business and investment opportunities! ;)