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> Different localities have different cultures, and for some, it's good. Men deciding what women want is a repugnant thing to do. To use your own examples: 1.
by jeswin 9y ago
> Different localities have different cultures, and for some, it's good.
Men deciding what women want is a repugnant thing to do. To use your own examples:
1. If infertility is with the man, can the woman simulataneously keep two husbands?
2. Can a woman marry a widower to take care of him while being in a marriage?
Pretty sure this is blasphemous in Islam.
- pksadiq 9y agoWhen you comment about culture, be sure you know something about it. It's pretty much hard to get a woman married once divorced (pretty much every village in India at least, to say). But for males that isn't usually the case. And considering Islam, it is men's duty to protect and feed his women, not the other way. I think this is true for all Abrahamic religions. In Islam, this is even true when the women is rich. That is, the ownership of women's property won't change before or after marriage. The man have to provide food and shelter to his wife and children regardless of the women's wealth. Women is free from such duties. There are also other issues like inheritance (finding the true father of child), or considering the spouse equally (to the extend that a person with two wives should spent every alternate day which one wife and the other day with the other. This isn't possible when a woman marry two man, where there is pregnancy period, etc.) And to answer your question: No. Islam doesn't allow that.
- jeswin 9y agoWe're moving to a world where women will be equal partners in the workforce, even in India. We should take steps to achieve gender equality faster, and religion steeped in centuries old customs isn't helping. Women's rights are an absolute, irrespective of whichever religion people belong. If that means striking off what's regressive from the holy books, that's what liberal believers need to do. The sooner we get to Uniform Civil Code, the better.
- gkya 9y agoI think your interlocutor is just trying to show why some Muslim women support polygamy. And there certainly are such women. We can't just dismiss an insight into why that is the case because you dislike the situation, no?
- zpatel 9y agowell, you are imposing your liberal view on others by imposing uniform civil code which will be modelled possiblt after the majority religion in country (india) ?
- it_learnses 9y agoThat's why it's hypocritical. Same as not allowing Muslims to abandon Islam, but wanting to convert others to Islam.
- int_19h 9y agoSo, to sum it up: it is misogynistic. (Same as most Abrahamic religions, since you mentioned those.) And no, "it's our culture" is not an excuse for that.