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I’ve been that weirdly careful, yes. I’ve searched for a picture of me, and have only ever found a grainy one from two decades ago. That is it.

cryptoz 9y ago
If you've been that careful, then props to you. Good job. > I’ve searched for a picture of me, and have only ever found a grainy one from two decades ago. That is it. But that's not what I mean. Facebook knows who you are. Maybe you can't find it yourself using search terms, but that's not the point. You have a Facebook profile with an email and a set of pictures and a social web connected, I'm sure, even if you've never signed up. There's just a db flag set that says 'waiting for this person to sign up'. Facebook knows.
- IntronExon 9y ago
  That could be, it I’ve never uploaded a picture of me anywhere, and I avoid having my picture taken. I’ve never had a social media account with my real identity either, and never had an FB profile, period.
  - cryptoz 9y ago
    Those are all good steps, and I do want to say, I think our society would be in a better position if more people were concerned about this as you are. I am sorry to be saying these downer things. I don't mean to be defeatist or tell you that there's no hope. It's just that the situation is really that dire. Phone cameras are high res. If you live in a city or go out in public often in busy places, then the sheer number of people taking selfies and photos is immense and makes it likely that over time, each of us is caught repeatedly in these photos. With Facebook et. al's newfound face recognition and social scale, people who have never heard of a computer or phone or Facebook can now be automatically identified and tracked throughout the real world just by your face in other people's social photos. I realize this dystopia might not accurate portray your life, but it is also meant as a comment for others. Privacy is not an individual choice any more. Our social networks have forced a change in expected privacy and there's little that we can do right now to change that, as the profit motives for the corporations like Facebook are aligned this way. Note: Yes, being in public has an element of privacy. It is reasonable to expect that if you buy some groceries at a store in Atlanta, and the next week walk to Central Park in NYC, that a company in San Francisco who you have no relationship with would not know about it. But that expectation is now gone, and already it seems wild that we could have ever had it. That is a kind of privacy that is lost forever.
    - rhizome 9y ago
      So maybe not "fuck IntraExon," so much as fuck everybody who isn't so vigilant?
    - musage 9y ago
      > there's little that we can do right now to change that There's plenty, but I think it starts with not wasting that energy on people who think there is nothing we can do. > already it seems wild that we could have ever had it It seems wild to you, it's a given to me. The metrics for what is wheat and what is chaff haven't changed one bit, it's just we have a lot more chaff, to the point of chaff declaring itself edible. But individually, a piece of wheat beats a piece of chaff every single time. So I suggest thinking of it sequentially going through a mob person by person. The emperor is naked, the people who worship him are fools, and individually they can offer no resistance and no argument. All they have is "but there are so MANY who have spines like wet noodles", or even "I agree, but there are these other people who aren't even here who maybe don't". In my mind, the more the merrier. Let every last person on the planet buy into this and it will change nothing at all about my personal outlook.
    - binaryriviera 9y ago
      Damn, I'd never realised things had gotten that bad. I willingly share photos of myself online but that's my choice. It's sad that even privacy nuts can't hide themselves anymore.

cryptoz 9y ago

If you've been that careful, then props to you. Good job. > I’ve searched for a picture of me, and have only ever found a grainy one from two decades ago. That is it. But that's not what I mean. Facebook knows who you are. Maybe you can't find it yourself using search terms, but that's not the point. You have a Facebook profile with an email and a set of pictures and a social web connected, I'm sure, even if you've never signed up. There's just a db flag set that says 'waiting for this person to sign up'. Facebook knows.

IntronExon 9y ago
That could be, it I’ve never uploaded a picture of me anywhere, and I avoid having my picture taken. I’ve never had a social media account with my real identity either, and never had an FB profile, period.
- cryptoz 9y ago
  Those are all good steps, and I do want to say, I think our society would be in a better position if more people were concerned about this as you are. I am sorry to be saying these downer things. I don't mean to be defeatist or tell you that there's no hope. It's just that the situation is really that dire. Phone cameras are high res. If you live in a city or go out in public often in busy places, then the sheer number of people taking selfies and photos is immense and makes it likely that over time, each of us is caught repeatedly in these photos. With Facebook et. al's newfound face recognition and social scale, people who have never heard of a computer or phone or Facebook can now be automatically identified and tracked throughout the real world just by your face in other people's social photos. I realize this dystopia might not accurate portray your life, but it is also meant as a comment for others. Privacy is not an individual choice any more. Our social networks have forced a change in expected privacy and there's little that we can do right now to change that, as the profit motives for the corporations like Facebook are aligned this way. Note: Yes, being in public has an element of privacy. It is reasonable to expect that if you buy some groceries at a store in Atlanta, and the next week walk to Central Park in NYC, that a company in San Francisco who you have no relationship with would not know about it. But that expectation is now gone, and already it seems wild that we could have ever had it. That is a kind of privacy that is lost forever.
  - rhizome 9y ago
    So maybe not "fuck IntraExon," so much as fuck everybody who isn't so vigilant?
  - musage 9y ago
    > there's little that we can do right now to change that There's plenty, but I think it starts with not wasting that energy on people who think there is nothing we can do. > already it seems wild that we could have ever had it It seems wild to you, it's a given to me. The metrics for what is wheat and what is chaff haven't changed one bit, it's just we have a lot more chaff, to the point of chaff declaring itself edible. But individually, a piece of wheat beats a piece of chaff every single time. So I suggest thinking of it sequentially going through a mob person by person. The emperor is naked, the people who worship him are fools, and individually they can offer no resistance and no argument. All they have is "but there are so MANY who have spines like wet noodles", or even "I agree, but there are these other people who aren't even here who maybe don't". In my mind, the more the merrier. Let every last person on the planet buy into this and it will change nothing at all about my personal outlook.
  - binaryriviera 9y ago
    Damn, I'd never realised things had gotten that bad. I willingly share photos of myself online but that's my choice. It's sad that even privacy nuts can't hide themselves anymore.