Maybe I'm the outlier but I've "just sat down" to have a coffee and stare into the abyss like three times in my life. Either I'm there with friends or I need to

Maybe I'm the outlier but I've "just sat down" to have a coffee and stare into the abyss like three times in my life. Either I'm there with friends or I need to kill an hour or two and work. In the latter case I have a laptop and in the former case I'm not alone and wouldn't ver take out the laptop. Either it's purely WTF or in some cafes it must be really bad with the people working for hours, I've hardly noticed them here where I live.