I notice you have used the insult “asshole” twice when no one else is, and you are using the mention of the word as proof someone is wrong. Would you consider

I notice you have used the insult “asshole” twice when no one else is, and you are using the mention of the word as proof someone is wrong. Would you consider writing what someone has specifically done wrong, rather than the insult? It’d be more clear, and we wouldn’t need to guess whether your overall assessment of people is reliable.