There is good rule that sounds like "If you don't know what you want you will do what others want". You may hear a lot of good advices like "do this" or "don't

There is good rule that sounds like "If you don't know what you want you will do what others want". You may hear a lot of good advices like "do this" or "don't do that", However, first and only thing you should do - is to decide/identify what you really enjoy in this life. It's not so easy as it sounds. Then do what you want, not others want. You'll be amazed how life can be beautiful, and how magically things may change - even beyond your expectations. It worked for me when I was 32-33. <PS> Sorry for my poor english.