This is not meant to be rude or upsetting. Please interpret this in a positive and optimistic light. You're in a tough spot, when you have the time that is not

This is not meant to be rude or upsetting. Please interpret this in a positive and optimistic light. You're in a tough spot, when you have the time that is not better spent dealing with it, review your decision that got you into that tough spot. Be brutal with yourself, were the decisions reasonable? Did you make them actively or did they just sort of happen? Should you have prepared differently? Did you stop and consider it? Should you have done the research you're trying to crash with this question months ago at least? Did you make assumptions that have turned out to be horribly wrong? Assess it from the point of view of how you can make these and any other similar decisions in your life, better. Keep yourself, your family, any people safe first and foremost, everything else is just stuff. Even if it's irreplaceable for sentimental reasons it's still just a bunch of things. Get everything else you can out of this. It's a major opportunity to review how you make decisions and why that can really help you improve that skill. Improving that skill is amazingly valuable to your family, friends and neighbours. You might tell this story to Forbes one day...