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There's a point to be made by (sometimes snarky) non-Americans about the stereotypical "dumb, always smiling" American - there are times when it is insincere or
by aeriklawson 9y ago
There's a point to be made by (sometimes snarky) non-Americans about the stereotypical "dumb, always smiling" American - there are times when it is insincere or a bit unnecessary and I think that this is unique to America. I also find this stereotype to vary by location - it's more apparent when venturing down South, for example, but less so in a place like NYC.
That being said, and this is anecdotal, but I've had experiences from all over the country - I've lived in the Northeast, spent extensive time and have family in the South, etc; a lot of the time people are smiling genuinely or being cheerful with purpose. Most of the time it's not a facade, naivety, or sign of stupidity, as some would like to think.
Is it really hard to consider the possibility that Americans just have a more positive attitude? And why is that a bad thing?
- programmarchy 9y agoI saw a lot of this with tourists posing for pictures at the 9/11 memorial in NYC. Cringe. There are times when it is absolutely inappropriate to smile.
- aeriklawson 9y agoSure, I totally agree. I was referring to more "day to day" attitudes than situational though.
- blubb-fish 9y agoThose "smiles" also don't seem to come from heart or being based on a philosophy of attempting to see the good in the world or empathizing socially. The stereotypical American smile is the smile of a salesman. It conveys this "I am a winner" attitude - no humbleness or sincerity.