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This is here because it applies on some level to us all. I have a couple autist friends and they are awesome, and I understand that their emotions calibrate di
by Neliquat 9y ago
This is here because it applies on some level to us all.
I have a couple autist friends and they are awesome, and I understand that their emotions calibrate differently, but are still there and meaningful. After a while, you learn to calibrate to them, and can connect on another level. But this takes both sides letting down their guard and assuming good intentions. Something rare enough in love, let alone friendship. The time spent is worth it in either case.
- mercer 9y agoIndeed. Autistic people are often extremely loyal, non-judgmental (in particular ways), and lacking in much ego. If you can get past the problems that this 'miscalibration' cause, there are a lot of benefits to having an autistic friend! I don't blame people who are not up to the challenge, but I do hate it when people aren't even willing to respect the differences and instead choose to cast moral judgment.