"Yet even with the amount of programs being written and problems about objects being solved, rather than converging on a complete representation of real-world o

"Yet even with the amount of programs being written and problems about objects being solved, rather than converging on a complete representation of real-world objects, objects in programs seem to diverge, where an object from one project is different from an object from another project and is typically different from how a normal person thinks about the real world object." The problem is not with object-oriented programming. It is a problem of our minds, of philosophy, of language. An apple is an object. Our minds cannot know everything about an apple: the amount of information is too vast (the number and position of cells, different varieties, how to farm them, the quality of this particular apple, how it tastes to snakes, etc.). So our minds create mental models of objects by assembling only a fraction of the information needed. The information that we use to construct our mental model is not random: it is goal-driven. I don't know much about apples except which ones I like and how to spot rotten ones. My mental models support my goal of eating tasty apples. If I were an apple farmer or even a cook then my mental model would need to be richer. People will have many different mental models of a "real world object" depending on what their goals are with that object. So the problem of not converging on a "complete" representation of an object is not a limitation of object-oriented programming, it's an artifact of how our minds deal with the overwhelming vastness of the information around us.