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Do you mind expounding on "getting your mind in order"?

• CuriouslyC 10y ago
  That is going to be a different for everyone. For me, it involved systematically examining my beliefs and feelings, and discarding the ones that didn't serve me. Additionally, I've found that there is a certain flow to life; you can struggle against it, get carried away by it, or harness it. Accepting the way things are and learning to surf the currents rather than raging against them helped a lot. If you want a shortcut, in terms of interpersonal skills the two highest impact changes for me have been: 1. Derive your personal value entirely from within 2. Develop compassion for other people If you nail these two changes, you will be attractive. You might not be "persuasive" like a salesman, but that is a specialized skill-set that needs to be developed on its own.