I cannot believe it is possible to actually access private messages in social networks such as facebook in such a willy nilly manner - that is not to say I do n

I cannot believe it is possible to actually access private messages in social networks such as facebook in such a willy nilly manner - that is not to say I do not believe you, but can you give some form of proof? Did they force her to open her account or did they have access beforehand? How did your friend react?