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> what am I even supposed to do? Extracting information from self-contradictory accounts is a bit of a black art, but this being said my guess is that he actua

• mixedCase 10y ago
  >just the OP isn't comfortable discussing it in detail I have to say, if the OP is comfortable in making these very grave accusations but not comfortable enough to explain what happened but just to give her assessment of the situation; it doesn't do her credibility any good. There are a number of red flags noted throughout the comments, and much of this criticism has been met with "omg so horrible you have to believe the victim". This is a very worrying trend that will only lead to polarizing individuals into either of the hate camps; where those that rush to sympathize will create fertile grounds for false accusations and those who feel are being deceived are going to be desbelieving of actual victims.
  • smsowmya 10y ago
    is the fact that Apple thought to issue me an apology not enough proof that I am not making things up ?
    • mixedCase 10y ago
      Where's this apology?
      • smsowmya 10y ago
        read the blog.
        • mixedCase 10y ago
          I did read you claimed Apple apologized to you before I wrote that response. Which is why I asked where is the apology.
          • qb45 10y ago
            On her desk :) Why does it matter to you to see this damn paper? It seems to me that the OP deliberately avoids naming concrete people and publishing whatever paper trail she has. Which is probably a good thing, after some known cases of one-sided accounts published completely with details and real names resulting in lynch mobs against the accused and sometimes also against the victim. Discussion forums are not a court, which is where you submit this kind of papers to "prove" things to one another in slightly more civilized and controlled conditions.
            • mixedCase 10y ago
              >Why does it matter to you to see this damn paper? If you read the previous comments, she brought it up as proof that her statements were sincere. And this is very much the "court of public opinion", which is why the author wrote this post and chose to publish it here. People will make their own judgment with direct consequences. For an accusation of this level when the story has many holes and all we have is one side, some proof is needed. If anyone's reputation can be trashed forever with an improbable accusation, any civility you speak of is doomed.
            • smsowmya 10y ago
              this person is a troll - just read his comments. don't bother engaging.