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Using euphemisms, particularly with the goal of making bad events seem good, is indeed grating and lame. I think the intention here is sound, though. There is
by tacostakohashi 11y ago
Using euphemisms, particularly with the goal of making bad events seem good, is indeed grating and lame.
I think the intention here is sound, though. There is so much negative baggage around "fired", "laid off", "quit", etc, when these are really not negative events at all. This is where an employee is liberated from a situation that isn't working (quite possibly at a company that isn't doing well, is poorly managed, or in a shrinking industry), and will generally end up working somewhere better, taking the opportunity to travel or start there own business, and grow.
Trying to remove these associations from the process is a worthwhile goal, but it would be rather more honest to just go for something neutral like "no longer with us" than trying to co-opt "graduation", which obviously means something completely different.
- golergka 11y ago> bad event That's the thing: I don't think that parting ways with a company is a bad thing anymore. So, if the event stops being bad, why use the word with old emotional baggage to describe it?
- fucking_tragedy 11y agoWhat's changed that makes being laid off not "a bad thing anymore"? How is losing your primary source of income without notice not a bad thing?
- tacostakohashi 11y agoIt's an interesting question as to whether something has changed to make being laid off not a bad thing any more - perhaps increased flexibility and liquidity in the labor market from, say, internet job ads, has made this much less of a problem than it used to be. Keep in mind that "laid off" != "losing your primary source of income". A person's primary source of income is, let's say, working as a software developer. If you're laid off, you can still work as a software developer, you just need to spend a little time finding somewhere else to do that. In this way, it's quite different from losing your primary source of income due to, say, ill health. Even if you don't find somewhere else to work, as get all the time that you were previously selling to your employer back to use as you see fit, so in accounting terms it's a wash, rather than a loss.
- oblio 11y ago> There is so much negative baggage around "fired", "laid off", "quit", etc, when these are really not negative events at all. This is where an employee is liberated from a situation that isn't working (quite possibly at a company that isn't doing well, is poorly managed, or in a shrinking industry), and will generally end up working somewhere better, taking the opportunity to travel or start there own business, and grow. Yeah, right. Try to tell this to a single mother of two trying to pay the mortgage. For a lot of people (I'd say most people), being fired is not a pleasant experience.
- phamilton 11y agoTrue. Words are cheap. However, with sufficient severence and a removal of social stigma it might someday be less of a "your life is a failure" situation.
- ryanSrich 11y agoBeing fired or laid off isn't a negative event? In what world? This perception blows my mind. Being "let go" can be devastating. Especially for long time employees. It's also extremely negative for the company. It's as much a failure on the companies part as it is the employees (with exception of course. Misconduct being an obvious one).
- lazylizard 11y agohow about you'd already decided to leave and are now actively slacking... its free money for minimum effort until the employer realises it?
- fucking_tragedy 11y agoThey should have put in their X weeks notice or the company should have had the foresight to weed someone like that out before hiring them.