> I don't know. I just posted this because I guessed many people here have been in my shoes. Have you? What did you do? Not in this context but in a similar si

> I don't know. I just posted this because I guessed many people here have been in my shoes. Have you? What did you do? Not in this context but in a similar situation yes. Long time ago. What I did was introspection until finally I reached and embraced the cold, hard truth: - I'm finding all kind of excuses not to do what I know I should be doing because I'm afraid. - The fact that I am not happy has little to do with my job and everything to do with me. - Why I feel unhappy? With whom am I really unhappy with and why?! - If I can't find some quality time NOW (running, learning an instrument, having fun with my then gf - now wife, etc.) it will never happen. I have to make it happen. - It's all about choices I do, some are intentional and others are unintentional ... and finally it hit me! I lacked two things: A very specific cause like a clear destination, where do I see myself in 10 years, in 5 years, in 1 year? How do I wanna look next year? How do I wanna my relationship to evolve? How good do I wanna become? etc. Once you have this sorted out (where do you want to and why) everything else starts making sense. Good luck.