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They do communicate it in every major release, including which devices are supported. Many major vendors release security updates for EOL devices when doing so would greatly increase the security posture of those devices and comes at little
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It appears that you're simultaneously admitting that the article excluded information that did not fit the narrative they wanted as well as using it in your own narrative? It sounds like the article has issues like the threads article.
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I think if you raise your kids to be aware of different relationship styles and types, that being in a polyamorous relationship would be no different than dating as a single or divorced parent. You're not going to overshare with your c
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You're right, I could have worded that better. I was trying to battle the stigma that polyamory is sanctioned infidelity.
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iykyk is shorthand for "if you know, you know", and I just mean that groups tend to grow around or inclusive of certain subcultures. So people in a given lifestyle are more likely to associate with other people who are at least fa
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3y ago
"kitchen-table" polyamory does not imply that partner(s) are intimately involved with one-another. Just that they can amicably share the same space at times, whether that be a birthday party, a friendly dinner, or board game night
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Maybe so. There is definitely a lot of confusion and misunderstanding for those that have only ever been taught and only ever experienced monogamy. I'm polyamorous but I find polygamy to be pretty vile. I've never seen polygamy me
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Unfortunately the data seems to be limited, and quite poor, at this time. I'm guessing this probably stems both from under reporting due to societal stigmas and due to a lack of research. However, I found the following meta-analysis th
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Just to be clear... Polygamy/Polygyny IS NOT polyamory, and it is very much incompatible with the ENM and polyamory ethos afaik.
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I think it would have been more accurate to say that ethical non-monogamy (ENM) has become more popular. The only statistics I've seen seem to support that conclusion. I've not seen any statistics that seem to indicate polyamory s
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3y ago
You're operating under the incorrect assumption that a polyamorous relationship links all partners involved directly. I believe it's more common in polyamorous relationships that each individual in the relationship has their own p
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Polyamory requires communication and consent, a healthy polycule is no different than a healthy monogamous relationship when it comes to the expectation that your partner(s) will care for their sexual health and make decisions with you in m
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That's a fairly dark view and I think a misunderstanding of what polyamory is. Couples looking to non-monogamy to solve their relationship issues is not what polyamory is, that's not healthy. Non-monogamy != Polyamory, ethical or
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$dayJob is a records management system for LEA, we definitely support many-to-many subject relationships. You have to account for past and present as well, so from/to comes into play as well.
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Pretty common in the Tampa area, but it's definitely an iykyk type of thing. If you don't pass the vibe check it's not something that will be brought up in casual discussion.
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I don't understand this stance. I want to own so I can customize to my liking. I want to own so I can add that solar system and battery backup. I want to own so I can add 2 ft of pavers on both sides of my drive-way. I want to own so t
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I'm sorry if there was any implication of bias against Asians as a group. I don't think I implied that at all, when did I call them shadowy? That smells of your own biases and perceptions. I was simply referencing the region of th
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The owner of the prior home I rented owns 50+ rental properties in the county, has a 1M+ family vacation house in the adjoining county, and lives in California. Explain to me how that made "no meaningful impact" on the market? Tha
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Can you please provide a source for the rent decreasing? Maybe a site showing the historical rental cost(s) for a given unit? I've not seen that happen in my market at all, I've only seen existing rental rates increase. Edit: I t
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While we're on the topic, let's not forget foreign investors. Most of the properties in my neighborhood were purchased by foreign investors. My block in particular has at least 4 houses that are owned by asian investors. I've
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I am sorry about your conclusion, but you're ignoring all the knock-on effects. These houses are utilizing prime locations and locations anywhere near the city centers where the majority of jobs are. They're sitting there empty fo
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These are often devices or services used in the enterprise that do a lot of things that would surprise you, and just break applications willy nilly. We often have to request that exceptions be added for specific endpoints that use some of t
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He did not use SSE as I read it, but a home grown solution writing to the response stream of standard request.
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He is not using SSE, he is writing to the stream of an open/incomplete http response. The caveat you name is exactly why I said this solution is one I'd avoid. You're also not taking into account several other pieces of middl
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This article was not about using web sockets, it was about using a standard HTTP stream in a somewhat unorthodox way by never completing the request. Instead just beginning the response and occasionally "flush"ing data in the buff
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I would advise anyone finding inspiration in this post against using a similar solution in the real world. While this may work in a local only environment, once you encounter the real world consisting of Cloudflare, DPI/MITM proxies, l
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Voluntary refunds like this are often the result of a risk assessment. What is the risk to their brand, what is their risk legally. One could argue that they only did this to avoid damage to their brand and the damage to the industry if it
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This is the same type of logic used by police to justify civil forfeiture of cash in the USA. Drug dealers carry a lot of cash because they can't use banks, so anybody carrying a lot of cash must be a drug dealer and the cash must be i
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Everybody’s experience is different, that is not unique to THC or CBD. Most psychoactive medications are the same way with doctors cycling patients through different medications and dosages based off the patients experience. Personally I wa
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How does a paywalled article jump to the top so quickly? edit: it appears that paywall articles are ok per dang, apologies for the noise
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