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by ac2022 5y ago
Thank you, I am leaning hard on this choice.
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by ac2022 5y ago
You are right, a bigger house won't necessarily make us happy. TBH, we can still get our dream home, banks said we can get huge mortgage but I am not comfortable with it. Roughly banks will loan you upto 3x of your annual income. I hav
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by ac2022 5y ago
Thank you, love it that you said maximize time for kids. It puts everything in perspective. Only reason I started to compare myself with others is because we got priced out of housing marketing when we could have bought our dream home just
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by ac2022 5y ago
Thank you, this is really helpful. At this point in my life, I should optimize for money. > but if you haven't already write down your 4-7 core values then make decisions based on those. Making decisions that align with my values ha
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by ac2022 5y ago
Good points. Unfortunately, relocation is not an options for us due to extended family. > What is your main motivation? You mentioned affording a bigger home. Is money the main issue? Do you enjoy the work you do? Do you want to work on
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by ac2022 5y ago
Issues like these make me want to move into management and code on my own as a hobby. I am lucky to have a hobby that pays so well but I often see future of programmers bleak. Just recently two of my friends switched their jobs. They may ha
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by ac2022 5y ago
As an average senior developer in tech giant but not FAANG, I make $150K. I live in Texas.
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Ask HN: What should I do now as a middle aged developer feeling like a loser?
40 points by ac2022 5y ago|46 comments
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by ac2022 5y ago
This is so inspiring, I want to start drawing too. I never had formal training but wondering how did you learn to draw?
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by ac2022 5y ago
So many projects, 1. Dating site targeting my community in early 2000s. It started to gain traction but users were purely mean to each others. I could not moderate it and didn't wanted to deal with drama. Shut it down. 2. Craig's