The colloquial meaning of the term is not, "guy who plies women with alcohol until they can't say no." It is, "a successful person, typically one who has a lav

The colloquial meaning of the term is not, "guy who plies women with alcohol until they can't say no." It is, "a successful person, typically one who has a lavish or self-indulgent lifestyle." Your definition is completely made up. Or are these synonyms to you?