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He's insinuating that a father that is too close to his daughter would be perceived as a pedophile by women who believe that all men are potential victimizers o
by A_COMPUTER 11y ago
He's insinuating that a father that is too close to his daughter would be perceived as a pedophile by women who believe that all men are potential victimizers of women.
That perception does exist, I personally experienced it at a park less than a week ago. It is an open question who is "responsible" for it.
- hyperpape 11y agoYou did what, and someone did what, and you knew they were a feminist because?
- hyperpape 11y agoPeople are downvoting, but I'm just asking: what was the actual behavior? Did people run after you saying pedophile? Did they follow you around the park watching? Did you feel uncomfortable? I'm confused how someone would not want to ask those questions.
- rmc 11y agoYes, that attitude (that men being close to daughters is a threat) exists. But does that meme/idea come from feminists? Or from some other part of society that hates paedophiles?
- fit2rule 11y agoIts more appropriate to consider whether it is sourced from misanthropic ideals than anything else, since the assumption that a loving father is a paedophile is, simply, a form of hatred.
- A_COMPUTER 11y agoI am not a fan of the term "toxic masculinity" because in the way it is invoked it usually means "all masculinity" (I don't subscribe to that model.) But, I believe that the idea that all men are irredeemable sexual beasts does come from a distorted masculinity that makes naturalistic excuses for sex crimes ("males can't control themselves".) I believe this is a factor in the fear of any man being around any child. Another factor is that pedophile are OK to hate, and where hate is left unchecked it grows and becomes increasingly irrational.