I am 34. I never had a serious "drinking problem", but reducing the amount I was drinking every week has been a very positive experience. - I gave up drinking

I am 34. I never had a serious "drinking problem", but reducing the amount I was drinking every week has been a very positive experience. - I gave up drinking everything except wine (1 or 2 glasses) or an occasional beer. - Drink very slowly. My girlfriend drinks about 2-3x faster than I do. - Focus on the food, if you're dining out. - Substitute some socializing sessions with late night sports or reading. - Learnt to say "No, thanks". I don't think I wanna completely stop; but I think I've found my optimum level of merry.