(edit: just read geofft's post instead) I think parent is referring to the fact that the author of the article seems to feel as if her experiences as an autist

(edit: just read geofft's post instead) I think parent is referring to the fact that the author of the article seems to feel as if her experiences as an autistic person are invalidated by the dominant feminist narrative in tech, and that she is supposed to apologize for her experiences: ...if they tried walking around in my shoes for once. There’s a noticeable empathy vacuum in the room, and for once it’s not coming from the direction of the sperglord.