If you can't be fulfilled until you work for yourself, clearly the issues here are debts and obligations. So, pay off the student loans (because they're practi

If you can't be fulfilled until you work for yourself, clearly the issues here are debts and obligations. So, pay off the student loans (because they're practically inescapable), sell the car, default on the mortgage. At this point, divorce your spouse, and let them have custody of the kids--with you being in such dire financial straits (see previous step), you shouldn't have trouble convincing the judge you aren't a capable parent. File for bankruptcy during this process if you don't have joint accounts, otherwise wait until after. Congratulations! You're now free to work for yourself and be fulfilled!