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Cheating can also end bad relationships. Which prevents emotional harm. I'm going to go out on a limb, and guess that a lot of the users are kind of ambivalent
by wisty 11y ago
Cheating can also end bad relationships. Which prevents emotional harm. I'm going to go out on a limb, and guess that a lot of the users are kind of ambivalent as to whether their current relationship is going to last.
Who else would use a site like that? People who are comfortable lying (e.g. "cheaters") probably just fake a profile on a regular site, and lie to their date as well.
Yes, maybe they should approach things differently ... but let's not pretend that everyone is perfect. If people didn't have flaws, I can think of dozens of industries that would vanish overnight.
- itistoday2 11y ago> Cheating can also end bad relationships. Um... cheating is by no means a requirement for ending a relationship. You can simply say, "This relationship is over." Cheating is extremely harmful, and on top of that often unnecessary. Couples should discuss and explore open relationships, and if they are not open to that, end the relationship. In virtually all cases, cheating is a totally unnecessary harm.
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- itistoday2 11y agoI can no longer edit this comment, but I want to be clear that "opening a relationship to end it" does not make sense. There are good reasons to open a relationship and bad ones. Make sure you are seeking an open relationship because that is something you actually want. Also make sure to do your research first. I recommend the book, Opening Up.